Why is trust so important in a relationship?
I don't get it. I mean if your lover is gonna cheat he/she is gonna cheat. It's got nothing to do with trust. It's about how low they can go
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SW-User
It's a social construct heavily supported by the predominance of religions that still exist. I'm not condoning cheating but humans being in monogamous relationships is a fairly modern concept, there's still a genetic trait to fornicate all over the place for optimum success of the species, though its not necessary.
SW-User
@karysma not crazed, evolved that way, average guy creates 300 million sperm a day from puberty to death in many cases. it takes 1 sperm for fertilisation, then women are 9 months out of the picture, do the maths. Lol it's not perfect. Religions are predominantly patriarchal, women have been portray as submissive, essential the scales are not in the females favour, particularly since its roughly 50/50 male/female now. There wasnt always equal numbers of males and females. Its likely females were the dominant sex 1000s of years ago.
LyricalOne · F
If he’s texting other women behind your back and you don’t trust him, is that a healthy, happy relationship? For most people, the answer would be no. Therefore no trust equals an unhealthy, unhappy relationship.
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karysma · 31-35, F
@LyricalOne if my past lovers cheated I never knew about it and that's the way I like it. But I know men and their ways
LyricalOne · F
@karysma I don’t doubt your experience. Mine just hasn’t been the same.
karysma · 31-35, F
@LyricalOne I'm not gonna plant a seed of doubt in your mind. If you trust him that much good for you. I hope he never hurts you when you trust him this much
karysma · 31-35, F
@LesserUgly @Faust76 lol 😂
How do you mean? Obviously trust is important, but jealousy is dumb.
karysma · 31-35, F
@LesserUgly nope. Never heard of it
@karysma HOLY FUCK. Really? A Harem is basically a brothel but where a man has many women for sex. It's a super ancient practice. Doesn't really exist anymore, except in a few regions of the world.
karysma · 31-35, F
@LesserUgly Why didn't you just say brothel 😁
Wraithorn · 51-55, M
Trust is important because otherwise jealousy takes over and that is a really damaging emotion.
SW-User
It is ? I must have missed the fine print 🤓. Lol.
True it’s low and also disgustingly horny with lack of self control !
So I’ve heard anyway 🙄
True it’s low and also disgustingly horny with lack of self control !
So I’ve heard anyway 🙄
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
True. Its just a dialogue to keep you blinded while getting entertainment from around.
karysma · 31-35, F
@Reflection2 what?
R5000 · 41-45, M
are you happy that they cheat?