@Aydao changing yourself for someone is wrong......unless it is not the ethically better......compromise f oneself leads to resentment.
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That kind of passive aggressive attitude 'nice guys' use to feel bitter about women not giving them attention is getting old. If nice guys were less passive and did something about the girl they liked, they might not be ignored. It is bullshit that all women go for men who are horrible to them.
Lately you are showing your dissapointment about womens are not very interested with guy. Looks like you are a guy who use this site to flirt or looking for girlfriend and doesn't go well with your results I might be wrong but i still want to say this
@Aydao if you guys don't come to us with such intention actually we can have decent chat. Example : this chat. We are not flirty or something like that and i can reply your comments until this far
@YukikoAmagi I never tried to be flirty even in the past when I was sexually interested in a girl,right now especially right here,i'm interested in nothing more but friendly talk
If you like someone then just freakin talk to them. Newsflash: nice guys aren't nice, they're just afriad of rejection and often can be very not nice when it happens.
Just cause the more traditionally attractive men have more confidence doesn't mean other people don't have a chance. Confidence and personality is attractive. Not fake niceness
@WittyKittyfeelinShitty I am too nice. But I have no confidence. But yes I am afraid of rejection but I have an avoident personality so I don't like conflict. So if I get rejected I don't get mean about it. I just get sad.
you know....I had this proven to me by a 'ladies man' who was a friend - we used to people watch together. He showed me i a night club one night....he caught the attention of this pretty young thing...and then proceeded to ignore her, and respond minimally ...she was all over him like a rash. I was blown away !
@BoobooSnafu sometimes still I wont change myself just to fit in a shitty society,good people will appreciate other good people,that's realyl enough for me
Young girls and very immature women go for jerks because they have no experience and jerks know how to manipulate them. Most women grow out of this. Unfortunately, since younger women are seen as the most attractive women, the guys compete for them...And the jerks and a-word guys win out most of the time.
@SW-User Stupid women...and ones that remain immature girls. It's the same with the guys...a lot only go after to shallow, bitchy type with the Elle McPherson looks. Because they stupidly and/or immaturely believe that they are the only ones worth having. Will they ever learn?
@Aydao the sad thing is......they know no better. their beauty becomes a crutch and an addiction . it's incredibly sad.... And because they are so used to attention....they need it - like a drug...and will basically do anything to get it.
When entropy finally catches up with these people...they find they are an empty shell.....with no personality, wit, or character to draw upon.
@BoobooSnafu yes,I hope it happens soon,the real things that matters to come first,like personality and genuine kindness in people,not beauty and fakeness
