What should I say when my boyfriend calls himself ugly?
I mean, I don’t want to lie to him. He knows what he looks like. I’m not with him because he’s hot 😂
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That’s odd usually once I begin to develop feelings for someone I become attracted to them even if I wasn’t at first. Their personality is what attracts me to them and a lot of their features, weird quirks, habits all of that is the best to me whether they or anyone else sees it. When you’re with someone you want to do your best to let them know that. You want to cherish them and show them how great they are, it’s not your job of course but it’s something that partners should do in relationships, make their S/O feel love even when they don’t believe it. If you don’t someone else will 🤷🏽♀️ Attention is one of the main keys to keeping a relationship strong so many people feel neglected in relationships. That’s half the users on here it seems 🤦🏽♀️
Spoiledbrat · F
That’s because it’s not as easy to get out of a relationship as it might seem. They need to make a choice and probably don’t want to give up on their partner. @Stark
Coppercoil · M
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MorbidCynic · F
@Spoiledbrat what? He’s fantastic lol
Coppercoil · M
@Spoiledbrat what if aliens exist and are manipulating us through social engineering and trying to change the path of human evolution?
Spoiledbrat · F
I’m just saying, we are nice to people generally because they are nice to us too. @Coppercoil
BeefySenpie · M
BeefySenpie · M
@MorbidCynic Does he actually know you [b]don't[/b] find him attractive? If he ever questions you, and you give him an honest answer it'll tear him to pieces. Nothing personal, but this seems messed up
MorbidCynic · F
@BeefySenpie I’m obviously into him or else I wouldn’t be with him 😂
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
I dated someone i thought was ugly and he turned out to be the best partner i ever had. Tell him beauty is not what’s on your face. It’s in your brain and in your heart. Sounds cliche but it’s true and you can tell him my story.
Besides that, you can reply with “it doesn’t matter to me how you look because you make me feel beautiful”
Besides that, you can reply with “it doesn’t matter to me how you look because you make me feel beautiful”
SerenitiesScars · 31-35, M
MorbidCynic · F
@SerenitiesScars he likes his beard lol
SerenitiesScars · 31-35, M
@MorbidCynic I meant that you like on him.. But alright..
MorbidCynic · F
@SerenitiesScars idk lol 😆 I didn’t think it would initially lead to anything but it did and I like him for who he is as a human
MorbidCynic · F
@DarlingSelah more his personality lol he’s a great guy
@MorbidCynic call him ugly when youre having sex. He'll love it.
MorbidCynic · F
@DarlingSelah I’ll make sure to do that 😂
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MorbidCynic · F
Will do lol @HipYoungDude
MorbidCynic · F
SW-User
@MorbidCynic 🤔
Spoiledbrat · F
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MenzernaSF4000 · 36-40, M
Just because he talks shit about himself, doesn't mean you have to agree or say anything back. Don't say anything, just hug n kiss randomly. Action speaks louder than words. Let your actions show how much you love him.
MorbidCynic · F
Lol I don’t talk shit to him 😂 @MenzernaSF4000
MenzernaSF4000 · 36-40, M
@MorbidCynic i mean don't respond to negative stuff he says. 😔
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SW-User
Then what do you like about him that much!!
SW-User
And whats he like as a person!!!
Btw you should tell him straight how he looks like , one of my friend tells me at my face how do i look like @MorbidCynic
Btw you should tell him straight how he looks like , one of my friend tells me at my face how do i look like @MorbidCynic
MorbidCynic · F
SW-User
@MorbidCynic i use them to imply that i wana know more ... curiosity
SW-User
But there must be some feature you like about him? If no I feel really sorry for him, he must be thinking you find him hot and all that
Pfuzylogic · M
I’m sure if you held his hand and/or kissed him he would get over himself.