I dont mean to have a pity party, but some people have no idea

Some people have no idea what it's like to be single for a while, being easliy able to get a new partner. It's been a loooong time, and I've had a taste of it recently (I can never be with the person, but) and it just makes me feel that much worse knowing what I'm missing. It sucks being alone, I know I gotta find my own self worth blah blah blah. But still, it takes it's toll after a while.

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rckt148 · 61-69, M

yea ,its time to get a grip and quit crying about it and make some changes to do something about it ,
I hear E harmony is worth all the questions and the money if you are truthful with the billion and one questions they ask .

I have had a woman in my bed since I was 14,, every night up until about 6 1/2 yrs ago when I made up my mind to seek real love
and I kid you not ,if I was left in the morning ,someone new was in my bed that night ,but it sucks when you have to face ,all you have in common is companionship and sex ,
When you learn to control your own thoughts ,and not let your brain and body control you ,it gets easier and easier to look at your own life
and how there are way more important things to be consumed with .

I myself now find I am content with myself ,and seeing others as couples no longer bothers me
I am content and there are as many pro's about being single as con's
mainly because I see so few of my friends and family who are actually happy ,
they just settled so they were not alone ,and thats sad
So should the right one finally come along ,there they are in a relationship they hate ,and they have became roommates with benefits just so they could say they were with someone ,

My poor Granddaughter is finally getting Papaw is not so ignorant after all
It sucks when you figure out Grandpa was right ,he was only after one thing
And dude just to be honest ,no woman wants a desperate man

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rckt148 · 61-69, M

@Plumouter Sorry if I come off as to hard ,putting my nose where it doesn't belong ,
but like my Granddaughter ,she is so desperate to have a boyfriend and not be the 3rd wheel out ,she actually said she was engaged to a man in prison .
He and his Mom trolled her Face Book account ,and if she spoke to any male he was sending her letters saying he was going to end up getting more time because he was going off on someone in there over her and be in fights ,and maybe harm himself .
I was able to get her to see she was on house arrest ,and she could do better and now she has ,she has met someone she is taking her time to get to know this time .
I was in a relationship that was cold ,strictly roommates ,
but it cost me someone I really loved ,when she wanted me to just kick her out
and not willing to just hurt her too ,she does still care for me ,
I let the one I did love get away ,not knowing how to handle getting a love that was over ,out of the way ,,I actually hoped it would work itself out ,but in the end ,I lost both of them .(not that I was trying to keep her on a string ,but I didn't want to intentionally hurt her any further either

So its cool you have your sights on someone ,
With so many young people so lonely and so desperate for love
I just try to share my painful experience and get them to chill a bit
and not just settle because they are lonely ,
nothing sucks worse then being in a relationship that both are unhappy
and it cost you someone you know you would have been happy with .
So please forgive my 2 cents ,I was just try to save you my fate
I am glad to hear you have set you sights on "the one"
I sincerely hope it works out and both of you are happy

Plumouter · 26-30, M

@rckt148 it's good man I'll appreciate any experiences or advice anyone has to offer. Thank you

rckt148 · 61-69, M

@Plumouter that is actually a very good sign
a sign of wisdom is being able to accept correction
Wishing you all the luck or blessings you can contain