How much work do you do around the house or particite in hous chores to helpout your partner?

We all have different roles to play in life to keep the life and society going. One of the most criticle roles is the participation at home at verious levels.

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rckt148 · 61-69, M

I am ex military ,and used to dealing with small spaces
so everything has its place
And I like to cook ,
Both of my wives I worked very hard and in pain ,so when I got home ,most of the time I was already drinking and just wanting to kick back with the remote to my system and blast the neighborhood with some good tunes .
So as far as housework I picked up behind myself and washed a few dish's but my wife knew I worked extremely hard ,so she took care of the home ..
It was my always being gone ,and when I was home she felt like she was still alone that was the problem ,,,both wives same complaint ,and my second one I cheated on her ,,not a good Idea for a marriage ,,,

But all my women since have not had to work ,
I kept the house spotless
cooked meals that took all day to cook
and the laundry ,my yard looked like a park

They cheated and left me
So I have not got it all down yet ,what is the secret to a forever marriage
But I don't think job or who does the housework is the problem

Men only do what women allow ,,women only do what men allow
Set the ground rules that make you happy in the dating phase
Not after you say I do and now you will mold them into what you want
be honest ,,find the right one to start with ,,now days ,I think thats the ticket

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@rckt148 wow. You had an interesting life and i absolutely agree with your last comment.

rckt148 · 61-69, M

@aaaabbbb LOL it was more like a roller coaster ride through hell ,
but it had its moments ,but like a good roller coaster ride
when you stop screaming and take your hands off your eyes ,you come through it just fine ,but even through pain and hardship life is always teaching us something .If ,we are not to blind to see it (I unfortunately am a slow learner when it comes to the things of love )
So the last part is from experience ,
we can only be something we are not so long and eventually who and what we are comes out ,
so my way of doing things now is to always be who I am ,like me or not ,this is what you get .
I am not broken someone you can fix ,if you are a controller that needs to always have something that needs you ,get a puppy .
I want the other half of me ,but I will never Need someone again .
it will be mutual respect and want ,or nothing ,and I am fine with that too .

If you see something in me that you need ,and I you ,then we have something to build on .
But in the past I settled ,and I was blessed I have had very good women ,but their mistake was they always thought they could fix the things in me they didn't like ,,
and had they talked to me BEFORE they were leaving me ,telling me all the things that sucked about me as they were trying to hurt me ,I may have changed for them ,but one of my talents is not mind reader .
I do ANYTHING for people I love ,and now one of those things is to tell them the truth ,
when something won't work ,ignoring it won't make it go away .
So now I know what I want ,and should who I am be what some lady someday might want ,
then maybe I can have the until death do us part (and at my age and present heath Thats not like I am asking for to much LOL)
But being open and who you are to begin with I think is the key .

Not who is a better house keeper LOL
Have a good one ,thanks for the kind comment

Random1Thoughts · F

Don't have a partner so I do most of it but I have a cleaner that comes in once a week to clean.

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aaaabbbb

@Originalkingfish oh. Arr you single?

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