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Why do ppl insult you when you reject them ?

There's thiq guy who claims to love me very much, and it did seem like it. Thing is I was not feeling comfortable, and we were not compatible, nothing in common, literally nothing. So i refused.
at first he was okay, he said I respext your choice. Although it took a week of I don't want this for him to get it because he was acting all dramatic.
Then few days later. I received a bunch of insults by message. So after some days I became worthless, and he doesn't even know why he liked me, and i wasnt special anyways. Okay this is meh whatever.
but again some days later, I became a man eater b#tch, evil, mean and unsensitive, cold and a devil in human form.
If anything he's showing I did well in rejecting him.
SW-User
People insult you when you reject them because they are immature assholes and don't handle rejection well. His mommy probably told him he was special, perfect, & wonderful and sadly, he believed her.
Winenot · 51-55, F
He sounds like an insecure, sniveling little weasel! He didn’t get his way so he’s throwing a tantrum and directed it towards you. So pathetic. Good thing you didn’t waste any energy on him.
NeloAngelo · 26-30, M
quite a bit of it is being defensive. it takes a fair bit buck up n tell someone you like them and the anxiety of being rejected. in this case it was so he probably felt embarrassed or vulnerable and most people don't react well here. quite a few lash out and that's all it really is.

not saying this for his sympathy this still immature n soz u had to go through it but thats usually why this is the reaction.
Supesun · 56-60, M
Better off without him by the sound of it. Ignore him move on find someone nice and respectful.
ArwenPandora · 26-30, F
@Supesun Yeah...I guess so. Thank you !
Supesun · 56-60, M
It’s all about getting past the rubbish till you find a pearl.
SwarmSona · F
because they're butthurt
SW-User
^^^^^^This^^^^^^
Starstuff · F
It’s not nice when the other person can’t be strong enough for the happiness of the other.
IFoundLife · 41-45, F
Why don’t you block him?
IFoundLife · 41-45, F
Hmm, never respond. Keep blocking all such abusive accounts. He is trying to get a response from you, even if it negative response.. if you ignore, the problem will die.

Remember. Don’t respond.
ArwenPandora · 26-30, F
@IFoundLife I wont answer his messages, alright. Have to admit I was tempted to.
Thanks a looot !!
IFoundLife · 41-45, F
You are welcome, he is trying to get some response from you, ignoring him is best choice you have.

Anything, please drop me a PM, I will help as needed.
Belladonna · 41-45, F
They show their true colours.

 
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