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why do girls always expect boys to start conversation?

even i noticed that girls never start
you in the US??? females here talk quite a bit, and will actually initiate conversation. at least in my part of the country.
JellOFromHellO · 36-40, M
@amrit19901990 I am from India, and I think that's a generalization. I think you;re going entirely by the girls you've met so far, which is fair enough. But I can tell you I know many girls born and brought up here who aren't shy at all, even in dating or flirting contexts.
amrit19901990 · 31-35, M
@JellOFromHellO dude. i never meet girl like this. but i see that girls are talkative in big cities
JellOFromHellO · 36-40, M
@amrit19901990 Yeah that I can understand. If you live in a more conservative or traditional area, then girls might be a bit more reserved there in their interactions with guys. That's mostly because that's what they have been taught is the 'right way to be' by their families and environment. The more urban you go, the more relaxed that kind of pointless conservatism becomes. I always tell my friends who grew up in a more liberal setting to not generalize about stuff like that.

People's attitudes and habits change vastly from place to place in our country. I'd suggest that you maybe go to a college or something in a more cosmopolitan city, and experience for yourself the things that you're not used to. It will really change you as a person, and open you up to new ideas and perspectives.
Even you?
I start conversations with males all the time. The unfortunate part is that I get one of three responses, two first two being the most common.
1) They don't care to talk or listen
2) They think I'm hitting on them.
3) They respond in kind and we have a pleasant conversation.
amrit19901990 · 31-35, M
@nonsensiclesnail some women are very good in conversation. i think that you are one of them
You might have noticed in your circle which actually is not the case in the existing era - at least in most of the locales.

Either they are not interested or preoccupied mentally to initiate.
LyricalOne · F
They’re behind the times and need to get with the program.
Spica · 31-35, F
Because we’re not interested.
I'm not saying ur wrong I'm just saying Idk wtf u r saying
amrit19901990 · 31-35, M
@terribleperson i have many female friends and i always start conversation. so i just asked
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
they simply dont care if they dont start it.
amrit19901990 · 31-35, M
@MartinTheFirst did you also start conversation when you had first date
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M

 
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