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Do you still love someone you’re not with (dating or married to) anymore?

exes are exes for a reason - we already know....
hunkalove · 61-69, M
The love of my life and I broke up 26 years ago. I still think about her a lot. There hasn't been anyone since.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
@NiftyWhite She suffered horribly from depression and she quit trying and after 8 years off and on I couldn't take it anymore.
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@hunkalove wow so what made you love her so much? a lot of people would find it hard to love someone who’s depressed
@hunkalove The beauty of a tortured soul. Sorry your pain. 🖤
iMystery · M
[quote]exes are exes for a reason[/quote]... does not really apply in a situation where there was no break up, but she had to leave to another country as her whole family moved... so yes.. I still love her.
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Yes. Love is eternal.

But stay away from me though. Lol
willow · F
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
Far far away! 👍@willow
Yeah. His absence haunts me still. 🖤

https://similarworlds.com/32-Personal-Thoughts-Feelings/1845000-A-letter-to-my-Jacob-My-sweetest-love-I-never
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@Pianist1234 My final story is not yet told for I have promises to keep.

“The woods are lovely, dark and deep, But I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep.”
— Robert Frost
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Rokasu · 36-40, M
I think. I don’t like who she turned into but I deeply appreciate what she did for me.
Belladonna · 41-45, F
Yes. Well, he and I were never really together. We had an fwb thing going off and on for several years, but at times, it was like we were together. I cut contact with him not too long ago. It was unfortunate. I'd known him since high school. But he crossed a line I never thought he would.
@Belladonna So Sorry. 🖤
Rambler · M
Yes, in a sense. It’s more like loving a memory of a person who is gone into the past, rather than the person there now, who I no longer know. In that sense, everyone I ever loved, I still do and always will.
Hdryder555 · 61-69, M
@Rambler but you love the person they were at the moment not who they are now, I can see that
Rambler · M
Yes...people change. We all change, and love changes too.
Spica · 31-35, F
PotPrincess1 · 36-40, M
I did for about 6 years lol
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@PotPrincess1 what made you snap out of that
PotPrincess1 · 36-40, M
She was the first person I ever truly loved. We went through a lot together. And for a while made it through ... I held this perfect image of her in my head for so long. Always hoping to end up back with her. Then I met her again, we got close ... and all of the things that weren’t so perfect suddenly resurfaced. All of the things we grew to dislike about one another were still there. She had become colder. And I wasn’t so susceptible to her tricks. The love faded, yet I still hold her dearly in my mind. It is just ingrained in me now
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NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@Pianist1234 ur getting on my nerves
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NoYou · 26-30, M
Until very recently yes
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NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@Pianist1234 Just to be clear : Dating means to watch a movie and go to the keg for the purpose of a romantic exchange. Quit being ridiculous by trying to look clever.
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randomgirl42 · 26-30, F
No. Gotta move on and find someone better, no need to keep that kind of pain in your heart
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@randomgirl42 there is no better imo. there is only good enough
randomgirl42 · 26-30, F
@NiftyWhite if you search enough and still believe, you can find someone better than an ex
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@randomgirl42 haha naw. not after age 35!! it’s a gong show at my age.
SW-User
Despise one dont think about another and exchange pleasantries with my ex wife as she's the mother of my step sons but I dont miss any of them.
RoadieJay · 61-69, M
I did for a really long time.
No. But still some interest.
Sepia · 36-40, F
Not anymore
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
Hdryder555 · 61-69, M
meemo70 · 51-55, M
Celt43 · 46-50, M
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