Reasons to cheat
what could be all the reasons a person would cheat on thir partners?
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PoetryNEmotion · F
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@kayoshin I didn't read all of that.
But it is far from judgment.
Breaks it down and analyse yourself.
It is also easy to make excuses for bad behaviour.
And if one is looking to make excuses to cheat, why pretend to be monogamous?
In everything else, doing anything that can hurt your partner or family is betrayal. Then why not in having sexual relationships in hiding?
Let's not get wound up about opinions. Live your life your way but a spade is a spade.
But it is far from judgment.
Breaks it down and analyse yourself.
It is also easy to make excuses for bad behaviour.
And if one is looking to make excuses to cheat, why pretend to be monogamous?
In everything else, doing anything that can hurt your partner or family is betrayal. Then why not in having sexual relationships in hiding?
Let's not get wound up about opinions. Live your life your way but a spade is a spade.
kayoshin · 36-40, M
@SW-User unless you hit someone In the head with it then it's a weapon or you row on a raft with it then it's a paddle or you chop a tree with it then it's an axe, perhaps you should check out how many things the army thinks a spade can be. I've been cheated on and don't see things as black and white as you do, it's easy for the victims of cheating to close themselves up from blame and hurt by throwing it all on the cheater and make it a "them vs us" issue but it's just a simplistic and immature way to go through life in my point of view. Yelling out how there is no way a person could cheat and be forced by circumstance only proves either a lack of imagination and empathy or a bitter prejudice caused by negative experiences.
PoetryNEmotion · F
Cowardice. If you must cheat, divorce. One can make excuses to the numbers of wild birds on this earth.
A wandering eye. Always looking elsewhere instead of recognizing the worth of someone who stands beside you.
Low sex drive of partner. You should thoroughly know this person before you have sex with them. Discuss sex/intimacy, etc. Form a contract. If the person changes, the contract will cover the consequences.
Wanting one's cake and eating another cake and so on. Despicable. You cannot fuck everyone. It is like being in an ice cream store. You cannot sample every single flavour. You must pick one. Maybe two. But you must eventually choose one or they shall throw you out of the store.
Because a person married for the wrong reasons. Take your pick. More excuses. Make your bed. Lay in it with your partner. Do not bed jump.
For the thrill of it. Again excuses. A nymphomaniac, perhaps. But it can be handled like any other addiction.
A wandering eye. Always looking elsewhere instead of recognizing the worth of someone who stands beside you.
Low sex drive of partner. You should thoroughly know this person before you have sex with them. Discuss sex/intimacy, etc. Form a contract. If the person changes, the contract will cover the consequences.
Wanting one's cake and eating another cake and so on. Despicable. You cannot fuck everyone. It is like being in an ice cream store. You cannot sample every single flavour. You must pick one. Maybe two. But you must eventually choose one or they shall throw you out of the store.
Because a person married for the wrong reasons. Take your pick. More excuses. Make your bed. Lay in it with your partner. Do not bed jump.
For the thrill of it. Again excuses. A nymphomaniac, perhaps. But it can be handled like any other addiction.
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@R5000 that was pretty dumb then - to piss off the person they were intimidated by
Smiley23 · 36-40, F
Girl of ur dreams
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@Smiley23 you leave for the girl of your dreams