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Which would men prefer?

A woman who is overweight, and not model gorgeous - but sweet, kind and intelligent

Or

A woman who is build like a model, gorgeous and head turning - but is vein, not as smart and more high matenance?
Miram · 31-35, F
Lot of people seem to assume intelligence and independency can't be coupled with beauty. But most women that I have known to be extremely physically attractive are intelligent, kind and humble. I can name few in this website alone.
TenderHeart · 46-50, F
@Miram no asumpions, just a question :) no doubt both can cross over with traits.
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
The first hands down. I’ve dated the second before and what a pain in the ass. And let’s be real, just because she’s hot doesnt mean she’s good in sack - or even puts out much. Sorry to lay it out that way, but hey...
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
These days they would take both.
These days, I believe it is the latter. There ARE far more than enough men to go around though.
SW-User
They choose first for dating and second for random fucks 🙄. Men are idiots ( some)
Shadowhunter · 31-35, M
@SW-User that's a hit judgemental, however the Male species has not had a good track record. I'd like to believe there are a few good men around
I prefer the one that likes me
@SW-User You are so sweet! ... I like your thinking
TenderHeart · 46-50, F
@questionWeaver Seems dimple enough :)
TenderHeart · 46-50, F
Simple, even...
Hanging2 · 51-55, M
The first one.

I have done number 2 and they are fun until the good times run out.
I love this question. I’m that first lady....sweet, kind, attractive, and very intelligent....that no one seems to want. 😄
TenderHeart · 46-50, F
@LadyGrace you and me both! Lol
@TenderHeart 😂 My best friend in Iowa always says to me, “If only they knew what they were getting!” 😂
I think lots of gorgeous women are so vain, they’d get bored easily and soon look elsewhere for a new “high” of compliments, once they are tired of the one they’re presently with, and drain them for all they can get. I think if I were a man, I would not trust them. I also feel they don’t usually appreciate what they have anyway, since they can get what they want very easily.
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@SW-User OH!!!!! Slam dunk there, Lissa! 😂🤣
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@LadyGrace she deserves everything I say about her. She has said plenty rotten about me
@SW-User I wasn’t condemning honey. I don’t know either way. And it’s not up to me to judge. I just was laughing at how forcefully you answered. Pow!! Ha ha ha
Dusty101 · F
The majority of men from where I live would have number 2 on their arm like a trophy. The men would be just as vein, not as smart and high maintenance. So it's win win on the two parties.
I think it takes two less shallow people to be attracted to number one. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!
Chemistry and the zsa zsa zsu comes from within that they are head turning after you get to know them. On the flipside horses for courses.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
You make it sound like I'm ordering either a basket of chicken wings or a rack of ribs.

What am I on death row?

Lol
SW-User
👀 I'm just here to see the comments
TenderHeart · 46-50, F
@SW-User enjoy! Lol
needsmilk808 · 56-60, M
I've known some women that are incredibly beautiful on the outside but so very ugly on the inside. So I would have to say I prefer a woman with a natural beauty, maybe she doesn't look like a model on the outside but she's a sweet, down to earth kind person.
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TenderHeart · 46-50, F
@SW-User at least you’re honest :)
SW-User
I’d hope men would say the former, but I’m guessing they’d go for the latter.
Yes, they would. Most don’t know a good woman when they see her. @SW-User
SW-User
Definitely the first one. I've dated something closer to the second and it wasn't a fun time.
Imaginethat · 61-69, M
Absolutely sweetness, kindness, and intelligence are the more beautiful traits.
Peppa · 31-35, F
There's a lot of men that would go for either one. These women offer different things.
SW-User
They ususally marry the first one and have the second one as mistress!
SW-User
I agree with the folks that say we are slaves to genetics and history.

Of course we are going to prefer and notice #2 first. She might ruin things with her attitude and personality.

We could easily meet and fall in love with #1.

“Healthy” has its place in society. It’s a signal. I am uglier than other men because I am less healthy. I would be an idiot if I did not acknowledge it and not try to fix it. (Or keep it in control)
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I suspect the latter. But reality kicking in... they settle for the former. A man wants attractive offspring. A man judges appearance. That's how nature works. And women comply with makeup and revealing clothes.
Peppa · 31-35, F
@indyjoe just to say Mr Joe that have you considered it's probably more likely that lady number 1 will want a baby or two.
So by being with a man like yourself, your depriving her of the kind of life she for sees for herself. As long as this big topics comes up early and both agree then I say good luck and happiness to you both.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@SW-User That was an example of differences that I used to make my point. In no way was it an example of the original descriptions...not hard to understand.
SW-User
@indyjoe I said I suspect... and then you made a big deal of it. The question itself was bogus. People fall into a range.
SW-User
I’ll take the sweet intelligent overweight gorgeous model.
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I think it really depends on what captures our hearts at the time.

I don’t care if she’s overweight if she’s active. If she sits on an iPad 7 hours out of a day... forget it.

Kindness means a lot to me. I can be harsh and calculated and having an intelligent and kind queen would be a good match.
Dusty101 · F
@SW-User that's not much to ask!
SW-User
Does the overweight one enjoy sex? Then her.
DunDunDun · 22-25, F
I get that this is a would you rather thing, but can people stop with this? People act like that's the options that men are left with and wanna act all like all girls who are pretty must be awful people and girls who are ugly are the ones who are all, "I'm not like other girls, I read books and eat food."
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
just here checking out answers
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
For a relationship? The first.
Nobody28 · M
I'll take the overweight one any day
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
Unfortunately, most would go for option number one because they are ashamed to go for option number 2, but secretly like them.
@butterfly1013 😂 I was just joking with you. I knew what you meant, and you’re right!!
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
😊@LadyGrace I know lol
The overweight one. If you even wanna use that term. But, hopefully her face would be cute and attractive to me. That's what i look at first! And i hope she wouldn't be too terribly overweight. Thick, or a little bit big is fine by me 🙂
CZarr · 56-60, M
Option 1 every day!!
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@BiKeyWest Only one of the options was described as high-maintenance. You’re the one describing [b]all[/b] woman that way.
@BiKeyWest 😂 I know [i]some[/i] do, but that doesn’t mean all are insecure. Further, most and [u]more[/u] women these days, are pretty tough and are more than capable of taking care of themselves. Some men actually have the arrogance to believe we couldn’t do without them. However, those women who encounter such a man, are perfectly aware that some men are unreliable, treating women, as if they are an inconvenience. No patience at all. We’ve more than showed them, that we can take care of ourselves. We’re not the pitiful, little weakling, some men ascribe us to be. Much more appreciation would be nice, for those of us who work, or worked, our derrière off, while HE propped his feet up and left us to do all the work, and was “served” each and every meal for years. I’ve never had a man cook or serve me a meal in my life. (And I never once cheated on my husband or boyfriend.) Calculate how many meals that was. Men go to work 8 hours a day, which, I might add, should be appreciated....but a woman’s work is never done.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Can someone tell me why the ugly chubby defective face women are usually the vain, low intelligence, snobs?

Why is it that the ones that have a good face and a nice shape area always the shy, quiet, extremely self conscious, and the nicest ones -once you get talking with them?

Most women have a pretty good demeanor but those really half baked wicked witches are also hard on the eyes.

Can anyone explain that to me?
TenderHeart · 46-50, F
Overweight women get crapped on by society. A lot of these women get bitter and mad but don’t know how to channel it. It’s a defense thing for some...

The other I can’t say lol@SteelHands
TenderHeart · 46-50, F
Yes! Past experience and society @Montanaman
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@TenderHeart but not always. Sometimes I meet a heavy girl that has a cheerful way and you can see how pretty a smile and they're married and happy as a lark.

I mean those kinds that might be pretty but they walk around doing things and saying things like men are all over them all the time.

And there's not a lot of them but these ones, they really seem like they think they are so above everyone. But they're not.
Docdon23 · M
Depends on what for--if I am going on a cruise, first one, probably...for long term relationship, second, probably...there could be other factors...
fun4us2b · M
In between - if someone doesn't take reasonable care of their own physical being - I often wonder how good they would be in a relationship...
I think it depends on his own authenticity and how much he's been influenced by the efforts of society's indoctrination.
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SteelHands · 61-69, M
@FriendlyAmber The myth that someone can be happy all the time is probably the reason why women are overwhelmingly made victims of depression more often than men.

Any man claiming it possible is part of the problem. Too much of anything good takes the good out of it.

It's about time the vicious lie was put to rest.
I would bet they would go for the latter, only to have it be an epic fail. For what ever reason. And then resign to the first.
SW-User
vain* and high maintenance*? Short term probably the hot model. But I wouldn't want a long term relationship with someone like that 😆
Bruh222 · 26-30, M
I would say the first. I like to be the most attractive one in the relationship anyway.
TenderHeart · 46-50, F
lol! Ok!
SW-User
You’d be surprised how many men easily leave the first one to be with the second.
The prefer the latter obviously.. Or my sister woupd already be married instead of me
SW-User
First one for sure, have to think practical in this scenario ☺️
SW-User
A very wrong cliché...ancient as time itself, answer obvious...🙄
Maineguy · 51-55, M
To me body type doesn’t matter as long as the person has a good heart
Dale321 · M
I would choose the sweet woman every time.
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SW-User
The first one by a long shot.
Joe5663 · 61-69, M
The first one that was easy

 
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