Do you spoil your significant other?

She may have all my old dairy

I spoiled one SO outrageously. I made every decision, every menu, every plan in the light of 'will he like it?' I learned to cook what he liked and if he was home, cooked only those. I took an interest in what interested him and forgot my own. I bought his clothes and laid them out for him and when he complained there were no shirts that fit him I bought a sewing machine and taught myself to make his shirts. It was genuinely absurd and in time I realized I was no longer THERE.

I have been spoiled by another SO outrageously in different ways. He retained his own excellent Self but made my life one long fragrant candlelit bubblebath. I liked it, don't get me wrong. But that wasn't so good either because one day he got sick.

The best way to spoil is to spoil each other in the ways that are most important to each.

Not spoil, maybe indulge him from time to time..I love to cook him what he wants, if he fancies a cake I'll happily bake it. I always take time buying him gifts to get him what I know he'd really like..I probably spoil him most with my attention because he's a wonderful man..☺

I do yes ...as long as he's good I do whatever he wants. He doesn't even have to ask.

I'm not sure I spoil her, but I do enough things for her that she says she will have to hire two men to take my place if I die before she does.

Hmmm. Yes on her birthday, at Christmas, and Hallmark Day. 😆

Yes she spoils me too. It’s how she is.

yes and yes and yes.

I bought her lingerie