Im looking into having a polyamorous relationship.

@GreenGoddess fear is The biggest barrier no doubt

@DownTheStreet I don't know what there is to be afraid of though. It sounds like the best of both worlds. You have your girlfriend you can talk to and borrow clothes from, get your nails done together, go shopping. And then you both have a boyfriend to keep you both safe and mow the lawn. Of course California king beds are expensive and finding a room big enough for one would be a challenge.

@GreenGoddess Good points -- King Bed lol. Another way to look at it is...how will you know if you don't try?