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How do you ask a girl for her number to hangout sometime?

I'm socially awkward and so I have no idea how to do it. Also a little scared.
SW-User
Hi. I'm writing a phone book, so can I have your number?! 😬😬🤣
SW-User
@SW-User 😬 😬 😬
djcam · M
@SW-User Buttery smooth dude
SW-User
@djcam 🤣🤣
SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M
Just strike up a conversation with her and ask her about what she likes. Once she puts that information out there, ask her questions about those things. Then at some point, you should say "Listen, you seem like a really cool person and talking to you is really fun. You want to hang out sometime?"

If she says "yes", then ask her what would be the ideal way to stay in touch with her (between texting, social media, etc.)

If she says "no", then just wish her well and send her on her way :) You've got nothing to lose, really, so grab life by the balls! After all, you only live once...
no cheesy one liners. just be polite and friendly, ask her like a gentleman.
Batman · 41-45, M
Sooo I don’t usually telll people this but I am Batman line won’t work?@badapple
Mrunique · M
Fear is all in ur mind. Being socially awkward has nothing to do with anything it's about confidence. Being told no is hard to hear but it's just a word u hear everyday. Mom says no! U pout and get over it. Dad says no! Same thing pout and ur over it. Catch this girl on the fly and Just say "hey if u would like to hangout some time call me maybe we could see a Movie or something." and give her ur number. Now the ball is in her court. Then.let it go from there.
Nina360 · 31-35, F
Just be yourself and try to be friends with her first. If you truly like someone you would respect them and give it some time before rushing into things. Start an interesting conversation til the point where she’ll want to finish talking with you later. And don’t do small talk. Just observe something about her that you know would interest her like school, food or hobbies or something 🤷🏾‍♀️
You need to live by the same words as I in life; "Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained!" Remember those four little words. Your life will change for the better, and you will easily make new friends.☺

If it helps, drag and drop this message; "Hi, you seem like a nice person. Lets message on Hangouts." Simple as that. Do not ask, only offer.☺
Duh ,text her for it 🙄
SW-User
Just talk to her and get to know about her..If she's down shell give you clues. And be direct. Would you like to talk on the phone sometime? If she says no...her loss...and you'll know right away .
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
How would you want someone to ask you?
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@SW-User Exactly. So try like that. It's easy to figure out the right words, but it's hard to say them.
SW-User
@CountScrofula that's how I feel. I can't figure out how to say them right.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@SW-User There's no right way. All you can do is just overcome the anxiety and say the words.
whateverhappens · 26-30, F
looking good fam, drop your number in my phone , tbh mightnt pic up a lot of chicks BUTTT a lot of other chicks dig that
xRedx · M
Just be chill bro. Say it casually and don't make a big deal out of it. Let the words come out naturally out of your mouth.
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SW-User
@Originalkingfish okay not helpful
"Hi my name is _________, would you like to go out sometime?"
Batman · 41-45, M
I just wait for them to ask me, saves me from rejection.
Take heart. Many struggle with things like that.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
Oh no!Cheesy chat up lines!
Thevy29 · 41-45, M

 
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