How long is the grieving process for a spouse?

There is no set date. Everyone grieves differently.

Th at is truly personal. Some dealt with illness for so long before. Others it was sudden. Sometimes it was their mate and Some times their soul mate.

All I know is grieving is a process that is individualized for the griever. Some may never get past it. Sending good vibes your way.

I dunno, dawg... It differs so much depending on the person... Some people never learn to move on.

However long you need it to be; love doesn't end with death.

i heard average is about 2 years. how long has it been?

It all depends upon the grieving person; as to length and intensity.