How do you treat Cheater...?

I would like to say that I could have a civil convosation and likely calmly end the relationship but I'm not sure that would be the reality

If it's a relationship worth keeping, you both stop the affair, open a line of communication and explore what led to the infidelity and whether it means the end of your relationship or a learning obstacle for it.

It's popular and reflexive to say, "dump the loser," but it's myopically shoving everything your relationship is and means into the box of a single affair. If you want to come through something, you've got to go through it first. Talk to him, get the affair stops, inventory your relationship and start the work if that's what you decide to do. Good luck.

If you're interested, a fascinating look at relationships and infidelity can be found here: [image=https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved]

I'd kick them both to the curb

No problem. They both died the same night.

I would kick the shit out of him and have a bonfire on my front lawn with all her shit

Gosh. Betrayal from the two folk you invested all your trust in !
Well. I guess i'd have to ask both parties how it is they got together.
Not sure there's anything you can do to assuage the anger.
Probably more strength in walking away actually !
I mean, what are the chances one or the other is going to cheat on the other ? Having done it once already ?

Well i can tell you a story i was told, i guess a girl i knew found her boyfriend cheating on another woman and so the girl pretty much tied up and gagged the woman and left her there

It's a bit rude they didn't ask me to join in. They must hate me. So I'd stop talking to or seeing either of them.

No one deserves to be cheated on....what's worse than the sex is cheating your heart ....*tear*

Exactly happened with me

Sorry to hear that ... 😒

Horrible!!!!