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I think my boyfriend is gonna break up with me, would you agree?

He is having to go to Sweden to work and this was known from the beginning of when we started dating, he just didn't know how long it was going to be. He's told me that he's worried about it, that he is going to miss me, how difficult it will be for us and I've reassured him as best as I can but he is insecure. So today he found out how long it could actually be, first it was only 2mths, then 3mths and now its between 6mths and 12mths. He's asked me what think and I was honest, I will miss him alot but I cant t tell him not to go we've only been together for 6mths and I wouldn't want to do that to him anyway. I said it will be difficult but as long as we take it one step at a time and try to make it work. He doesn't go until the end of this month so obviously trying to make more time for eachother now, I'm meeting him tomorrow which was meant to be for a lunch and a movie, he has now changed it to coffee. I'm now thinking that hes just gonna give up and not even try just get out quickly before it gets difficult. Now am I over thinking it or does it actually sound like I'm going to be getting dumped tomorrow?
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Assume nothing until you know for sure.
Any particular reason you can't go with him ??
wonderland63893 · 26-30, F
@Picklebobble2 Yeahh thats true... Well I don't have the money to do that, I also I have a great job here and I'm about to get a promotion. Also I don't think we are at that point in the relationship
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@wonderland63893 All of which begs the question, if he asked you to go with him, would you ?
One year isn't very long, you can Skype once a week (or more since its free) and see how it goes. I wouldn't think he would end it like that, seems kind of low to me, but I don't know the guy.
wonderland63893 · 26-30, F
@UreBesFrend yeahh that's the plan we had and I would go over there when I could get time off work. Well I wouldn't either but you know you just get a feeling
@wonderland63893 I say just smile and be happy and see how it goes. My vote is for him to not do anything rash.
attaboy · 22-25
I think it sounds like you guys will try to make it work. Maybe it will or maybe it wont. But i think you are just anxious, but i have a habit of thinking too much good about people.
Tminus6453 · M
No idea..but If he doesnt want to wait for you then theres not much you can do.
wonderland63893 · 26-30, F
@Tminus6453 yeahh that's also true
Stevenmichaels17 · 51-55, M
Hang tough, hear him out. As corny as it sounds, if it is meant to be it will
Mustermann · 36-40, M
You should break up with him before he gets a chance to do it first. That would completely turn the tables on him.
Mustermann · 36-40, M
No, but with a bit of luck he will be very surprised and confused indeed and then beg you not to go through with it. The pre-emptive breakup is a bold and somewhat risky manoeuvre but it might just work.
attaboy · 22-25
@Mustermann thats manipulative and mean... again... no way to act in a relationship
Mustermann · 36-40, M
It's one way to go about it. There may be others but all possibilities should be evaluated.

 
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