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Are there certain unspoken rules for intimacy when it comes to a couple with different body types?

So I'm pretty curvy and thick (especially on the bottom) and the guy I'm getting closer with is taller but also way thinner than me. And so I started thinking, if we got intimate should I always take the bottom? Because I'd probably feel like a whale if I straddled him or tried to take the top. Would he think the same? It's kind of embarrassing... 😞
PeanutsauntieP1982 · 41-45, F
I'm a curvy gal too, and trust me, he won't mind the view from the bottom! More cushion for the pushin'!! 😉😉😁😁😁😁
From a man's viewpoint-----he already knows you have a big butt. And he's still therre....right? So he's not turned off by your body. Cowgirl him to your heart's content. He won't mind a bit or else it would never have gotten that far in the sex department.
snugglebunny · 51-55, F
i have the oppsite problem,my BF is'nt that big & wonder what positions are good so i can actually feel it?
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@snugglebunny Doggystyle.
snugglebunny · 51-55, F
@MrBrownstone Not sure if that would work out much cuz it has a curve to it besides being small, I've found laying on my side works some what but I still cannot feel it much! Is this bad of me to say?
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@snugglebunny Not at all. You need to communicate during sex. And I thought women liked a curved cock.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
You can be a power bottom.
LadyAlera · 31-35, F
@MrBrownstone Ahh if there's something I know well, it's awkwardness lol
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@LadyAlera It will be less awkward each time.
LadyAlera · 31-35, F
@MrBrownstone Thanks!
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
Let nature take it course. I doubt he'd mind if you'd straddled him. Back when I was thin I was with a few bigger girls and I just loved them to take charge.
Luvbuttz · M
Hey ... Dont worry about it to much.. In the moment do what u feel.. Im sure it wouldnt b a problem with him... Unless ur sitting on his face! B careful there. Just enjoy the intimacy.!
Have fun
LadyAlera · 31-35, F
@Luvbuttz lol no face sitting. Got it. Thanks!
Luvbuttz · M
@LadyAlera 👍
It don't matter ,sounds like he likes fat chicks so don't worry
@LadyAlera the main thing is he likes you so he don't care what you look like ,he'll be happy just to bang you
LadyAlera · 31-35, F
@NunIover Thanks, I'll keep that in mind
@LadyAlera go get him 👍🏾
Haydon23 · 41-45, M
Not at all, just enjoy yourselves without any hang ups. He obviously loves your ass if he is with you.
LadyAlera · 31-35, F
@Haydon23 lol if he does, he's crazy. But I ain't complaining...haha!
Haydon23 · 41-45, M
@LadyAlera can’t beat a good ass to grab onto, no one likes a bony ass!
Jillatopia · 26-30, F
No rules luv, whatever makes you feel the most comfortable and confident for yourself. You guys will figure it out.
LadyAlera · 31-35, F
@Jillatopia Thank you!
They like being squished
LadyAlera · 31-35, F
@DarlingSelah lol I sure hope so!
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
I say go for it in every way you're comfortable with. 😏
Fannyann · 61-69, F
You could always ask him When the time comes .
SW-User
There's no one answer, but you should probably do what you feel comfortable with initially... then go from there.
tallguy93 · M
I suggest you experiment ! Either way I would be happy..
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MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Fat bottom girls make the rockin world go round!
These things have a way of working out. And experimenting is part of the fun. 😌
LadyAlera · 31-35, F
@bijouxbroussard Experimenting really does sound fun. Thanks :)

 
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