Umm somebody help! Advice please and possible pep talk!

Someone asked me to "Hang out" and I've been talking to this person for a bit and its like a date situation or something...cause they said we'll go out to eat....and im anxious and also scarred, like in not a super social person and if we go out to eat...im pretty much will be close to silent through the whole thing...what should I do? I've never been on any type of date (Ugggh I feel like one of those anime school girls 😂)

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Insomniac100

She's the one that's want to hang out with you so at least you know she's interested...don't overthink things. If she's wearing something nice, compliment her...just remember to be a gentleman and don't chew with your mouth full or forget to open the door for her or whatever...when eating together just act naturally. She obviously likes what she sees so far in you so just be yourself. What I do honestly if I have things to run out to say is to ask open ended questions and go from there

EDIT*** Oh...my bad lol...in that case just be yourself...you'll do fine

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Insomniac100

@Cooper802Forever sorry Iol I just didn't want to give you bad advice because I don't have any knowledge or experience in that case

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@Insomniac100 Your advice would still be valid. 😊

Cooper802Forever · 22-25, M

@Insomniac100 lol I know it just made me chuckle how you gave me like a paragraph of advice when you thought it was a her...and then it went to just be yourself when you found out. I wasn't mad just to let you know lol 😁

sillysweetgirl · 26-30, F

Ask about then and don't be afraid to make comments on what they say or talk about your day and what you're looking forward to. Also, you know them, why should hanging out with Them be any different than usual or at least try to look at it like that. Be yourself cause that's who they know

Cooper802Forever · 22-25, M

@sillysweetgirl well we've only ever texted and I didn't mean I knew them for long...ive known them for like a 2ish weeks...and I'm just kinda worried that I lack a lot of things and that will ruin somethings and everything...