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How do I get him out my head?!?

It's been months and he is still takes up too much space in my head.
SW-User
Good luck with that, it's hard to forget about someone you cared about, deeper you cared the harder and longer it takes.
ABCDEF7 · M
The more you think not to think about him, more you will be (unconsciously)thinking about him. This is the way our mind behaves.

Either learn meditation, or unless you replace it with something else in your brain, it will be difficult to get out of him easily.

Best Wishes. :)
mangomonkey · 41-45, F
@ABCDEF7 thank you for this advice. He is popping into my head a little less often and I have let him go in my head.
ABCDEF7 · M
@mangomonkey That's good. Have a nice time. :)
SW-User
Find a new one and you’ll forget the old one.
SW-User
Throw a party to help clear your mind😍🎉
SoggedNapped · 31-35, M
Do a little ritual... gather some momentos of him/ you two.. have a small party and burn them.. nothing crazy.. but let him go in the ceremony..let him occupy the space in your mind, then let go slowly.

Lastly, forgive yourself - you still regret and dwell too much on the What IFs and How Could He...etc..
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mangomonkey · 41-45, F
@BlueClapTrap I like this idea but don't have anyone I can do that with. Maybe I could write it all out and it might provide the same release.
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Anopenheart · 51-55, M
Find someone or something else to replace him. Pottery. Watercolors. Digging deep ditches
mangomonkey · 41-45, F
@Anopenheart not sure digging ditches is quite my thing! I send most of my time studying so that helps, it is mainly when I take breaks or feel lonely. I have realised that I don't think it is so much him that I miss as much anymore but rather having someone that shared so many interests.
reessa · 22-25, F
somethin about getting over by getting under..
mangomonkey · 41-45, F
@reessa ummm let's just say that doesn't work...
reessa · 22-25, F
@mangomonkey well im out of ideas lol take care
mangomonkey · 41-45, F
@reessa Haha, thanks for making me laugh though
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mangomonkey · 41-45, F
@BlueClapTrap unfortunately I'm doing s course at the moment so no time to read for pleasure. Thanks for the suggestion though.
Thebartender · 36-40, M
I wud say have a rebound guy. But that doesn't work for everybody
SW-User
Ask him for rent now.. you actually need a rebound
Fantasize regularly about someone else
Wiseacre · F
Accept he's in ur head...then move on!
wudifu · 46-50, M
Put him in your mouth
mangomonkey · 41-45, F
@wudifu yeah cause that's going to happen
Mysteriousliaisons · 56-60, M
Maybe a head Shrinker 🤔

 
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