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Can Romantic Love be found on here?

JayneA · 36-40, F
of course it can, love is love and can be found anywhere
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@JayneA very remote chance
Callaghen · 61-69, M
friendship yes ..a sharing of likes sexually all forms ...love of the outdoors or nudism ..certainly ..but love ? kind of a slim chance on here....
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Callaghen yup, quite remote
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Is it possible? YES
Is it likely? NO
Am I cynical? VERY
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@GJOFJ3 too remote a chance if at all
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@SpiritOfSoul That's my view.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@GJOFJ3 I agree
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Theoretically possible I suppose.
The problem is it's easy to be the 'person you wish you were in real life' on here.
Lot harder to live up to those ideals in real life.
Practicalities and problems of living with somebody who has their own ideas of ideals and expectations, you'll never know about those until you actually spend time in each others 'reality'.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Picklebobble2 you are right
scheddybratzke · 26-30, M
As beauty lies in the eyes of beholder, so therefore, we cannot think of expecting true love on this place, its overcrowded with lots of spammers who just like to use it for pleasure, in fact i'm deprived of reading my inbox.You need not need a reason to be loved,inspiration can come from anywhere, so therefore what i'm saying if i'm saying anything is Love yourself, rather than getting distracted from this place, i have experienced the way people text me for pleasure, Nobody cares of affection and love.And nowadays its hard to believe that true love can be found on SW but I'm sure that there is probability of 99% people would text you for their pleasure.So i hope you got it what i mean,Jut love yourself and hangout with friends, make new friends....thats all the true love
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@scheddybratzke very true
WalterF · 70-79, M
Can you find love on here? I'd say it's not the best place... I met my wife on a Christian internet dating site. On sites like that, you can lay out your wares - what you want, and who you are. Even so, you'll still get predators who will disguise their true selves. (It's always more difficult for a girl.)

On SW, you can check a person's groups, see what they're into. They should fill in the About Me section, if they want to be known. And you can check their stories and replies, if they leve them available.

You would then enter into email conversation. You'd have to look out for warning signs. THen you could meet.

If I was unattached, I wouldn't look on SW for a partner. It's just a spare-time, fun thing.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@WalterF indeed.
Lovely response
RainBisou · F
Good question, I think its possible, I know a few people here and on EP that found romantic love, granted its not easy some are far away from each other but what is distance if you love some one. A few have met and are together. So my answer is yes.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@RainBisou Remote possibility of success
SanaRP98 · 22-25, M
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

After a lot of fishing , I did find few who posses the above character...So I do believe it can be found here.

The other kind of love...Meeting and being together, even that can be found here. There are all kinds of people here, just requires a lot of patience to unveil the masks all the good hearts are wearing...Love is in everyone

This is what I think and believe
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SanaRP98 thats so true!
LighDefiant · 36-40, M
Yes it can. Romantic love can be found anywhere. It's more about the effort you put in rather than the place that you do it.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@LighDefiant remote possibility
LighDefiant · 36-40, M
That's true, but remote possiblites doesnt mean 0 possibility.

I know Ive probably already made a name for myself as weirdo like I always do, but I can still see myself meeting someone just as weird, and dirty minded as me. Us starting up a long-term relationship and going from there.

At least there is a higher chance that FB at least!! There the most you can hope for is being stalked by fuckboi's if your a single female, and Russian Mail order brides, and scammers if your a single male😑.

Dont give up spirit. Your soul is stronger than the doubt, I know this because your a human being, and that by it's very nature makes you strong.

I believe that you can find that romantic love here if you want to, but romantics require vulnerability, and the intimacy that comes with it. If you can find that, you are on the way to romantic love on the internet. ;)
jeancolby · 31-35, F
Not really, I actually met someone on the old EP who wanted to wrestle me. Really a very well fit thirty something. I went out of my way to do it, all she was looking for was a lesbian romp in the bed room. I wanted to fight. Well we fought and it was obvious she was not a wrestle/fighter and after putting up with her rubbings and groping I ended the fight very quickly my way, yes a butterfly vibrator and smothered her out.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@jeancolby ooops!
jeancolby · 31-35, F
@SpiritOfSoul I havn't made that mistake since. That,s at least one woman who knows the 'about me' in my profile is correct anyway.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@jeancolby can't blame you
TallJames · 46-50, M
I was talking to someone on here for a good long while everything in common. She finally cut things off when we got to the end of a game I started with her non sexual. She basically said it got to real and she just felt in the end I was older than she could go for. She was 28. It stung. I did not get to the point of having feelings for her but I definitely wanted to meet her and was bummed when she said that would not happen. So yeah it's possible. But remote.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@TallJames indeed so very remote chances
Barelygettingby · 56-60, F
You can find many things here but it's highly doubtful love will ever enter the picture.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
SW-User
[c=#4C0073]i'd say 99% of persons online never show their true nature .. how is love supposed to be found without blatant sincerity and honesty .. it cannot :)[/c]
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SpiritOfSoul This post isnt placed under nudity category!
SW-User
@SpiritOfSoul [c=#4C0073]that's fine, my reply has the tag[/c]
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SW-User Alright if the tag justifies it :)
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
The odds seem to be about the same as winning power ball lottery.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@GJOFJ3 hahaha
Erinopenmindedmomof5 · 41-45, F
Its possible anywhere but the chance is low
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Erinopenmindedmomof5 yes,very remote possibility
SW-User
It can but, it’s easier to meet someone RL
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SW-User better option
OneLostSoul · 26-30, F
Nah. Waste of time looking for love here
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@OneLostSoul seems very much so
Unloved · 22-25, F
You must have been on SW longer than I have been.I only find older guys kusting over younger girls.
Unloved · 22-25, F
@SpiritOfSoul I do that.But they keep coming. I mean photos and dirty messages.I guess this place has gone bad
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Unloved Aw!
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@SpiritOfSoul She must think I'm a weirdo, she blocked me.
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SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Plumblossum very remote chance, if at all
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
Don't think so
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@LongHairedCougar hardly a chance
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@SpiritOfSoul true that... Guess people come here to just vent and relax... Guess that's enough for a purpose of being here... What say?
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@LongHairedCougar you are right
Artistic0 · 26-30, F
Nope. This is more a flirt place
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Artistic0 haha, yeah!
Isthiswrong90 · 31-35, F
Hennything is possible.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Isthiswrong90 this one is very remote
iamharry · 26-30, M
I found and lost it.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@iamharry remote chance of success
TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M
No. It can not be found.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@TheOrionbeltseeker very remote chance online
GloriaGirl · 26-30, F
very doubtful
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
ElPhonse · M
Never say "never". I met someone on the original EP and we became very involved. We even exchanged "I love you's". Problem was that she lives in Australia. We discovered eachother when we were in need of love, caring and intimacy. The distance kept us apart. I still think about her. Miss her too. I hope she's doing well. After my divorce, she helped me get the strength to remove my wedding ring too. I miss her.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@ElPhonse that too, surely
ElPhonse · M
Actually the old EP was easier because there was alot of sharing and caring between the members.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@ElPhonse I am told so
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second2018 · 31-35, F
Typical crude responce from an intellectually deprived washed up old curmudgeon. Guess you were out of the room when they were passing out "class" genes..😝
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Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@second2018 He's probably equally fucked up, I know I am.
SW-User
It all depends how you treat anf feel about other person.. days on Experience project were beautiful.. it is possible 😊
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SW-User a remote possibility though
SW-User
@SpiritOfSoul however remote..it is still possibility... Life, Love, feelings can't be put in percentage..it is or it is not..[image deleted]
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SW-User Interesting!
second2018 · 31-35, F
Perhaps a defination of love is in order..You can !ove pizza, your pets, certain music...I presume you refer to romantic love?
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@second2018 pizza isn't my love thing!
second2018 · 31-35, F
To some it is.. 😊
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@second2018 not me. Lol
Like2show · 36-40, M
One can never know where romance is to be found. The location and timing is not something we control, however need to be open when it does present itself
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Like2show possible but very remote chances
Carma500 · 51-55, M
Dont see why not - anything is posible! case of being in the right place at the right time!
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@Carma500 Even .000000001% is still a possibility, but yes it is tricky...but it can be in person too.
Carma500 · 51-55, M
@Raythedevil now you pushing it lol, but true on a technicality
second2018 · 31-35, F
Appears from the response there have been many that searched unsuccessfully..how else would they conclude the remoteness of the possibility?
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@second2018 I have heard some worked when EP was there
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
Long shot but maybe. There’s a few cute couples on here I’d like to see work out
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@JRVanguard very remote chance
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@SpiritOfSoul It’s good to stay hopeful though
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@JRVanguard not practical here
jleeb98 · 22-25, M
Theoretically, it could be found anywhere. Realistically, it's unlikely. Romantic love requires a genuine connection, which an internet-only relationship hampers somewhat by virtue of being intrinsically impersonal. It's far too easy in a medium where every form of communication can be extensively revised before being delivered to put on a mask.
jleeb98 · 22-25, M
Oh certainly. But a LDR formed over the internet will still usually be inherently weaker than one formed between two people who lived close together and then were forced apart, because it lacks that foundation of close personal connection.

Of course, just as easily as the internet allows us to wear a mask, reduced social pressure can make it easier to strip a mask away and be more freely expressive of your true intent. So, call it a pretty even shot I guess.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@jleeb98 LDR makes things rather difficult
jleeb98 · 22-25, M
Especially if you want a sexual relationship, since it's limited to flirty messages, pictures, and video chats. Not the same as an actual partner.
second2018 · 31-35, F
I don't think it impossible but would require two extraordinary partners to overcome the immense challenges in order to endure
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@second2018 very remote if at all
Scarboroughfair · 51-55, F
I doubt it. Most of the men "looking for love" claim to be in a sexless marriage.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Scarboroughfair very remote chance
nothingman · M
@Scarboroughfair I wasn't looking for love here ,it just found me!
ElPhonse · M
@Scarboroughfair That's because most men dont appreciate their wives and somehow seem to think that it will never come back to haunt them. Even the best of us are always trying to sneak peeks at other women while we walk with our wives. We tend to think she doesnt notice. We're too "slick" to get caught. I wish I could teach a course on this. I'd call it "Happy wife,.. Happy life".
stantheman1 · 70-79, M
Pics are only an attraction. Chatting with someone and getting to know them can lead to love
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
Jillatopia · 26-30, F
hmm, i suppose the odds are less but if it is meant to be anything could happen.someone wins the lottery
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Jillatopia only if you firmly believe anything is possible
second2018 · 31-35, F
You agree there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with them?
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@second2018 yes I do know what both terms mean
second2018 · 31-35, F
Please don't take it as I was suggesting you didn't...not being snarky.
The kind of love that leads to a relationship like marriage? Not very likely.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@BizSuitStacy too remote
Oldsong2 · 26-30, F
Expect the unexpected makes the unexpected expected .. and it happend once for me here .
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Oldsong2 oh really.... wow!
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SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@silkydrawers does make sense
SW-User
Theoretically, it can be found anywhere. But I wouldn't count on it.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SW-User youre right
okaybut · 56-60, M
Of course...and I would say a big reason is that in my view Love begins with the mind which uses words....and you would start with words here. :)
okaybut · 56-60, M
@Barelygettingby I think the majority are true words? I do not understand otherwise.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@okaybut yeah!
second2018 · 31-35, F
@Barelygettingby unfair assumption even though it may have an element of validity
Pop0159 · 61-69, M
Antmything is possible ... ... tho not likely .....
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Pop0159 very remote chances
Gumba1000 · M
Depends how genuine people are being.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Gumba1000 yeah,possibly
BrightLight750 · 56-60, M
In theory a place for people to share interests, experiences and opinions would help build friendships. I think people can find friends on SW but very rarely that progress towards love and a relationship. Nothing is impossible though. And maybe it is a good place for people with more special interests to find each other.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@BrightLight750 very true
Atrevido1 · 61-69, M
There is always some chance but probably not
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Atrevido1 very remote possibility
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SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@geoam1 oh! Yeah I see what you mean
manandwoman · 56-60
It would be difficult but possible I guess.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@manandwoman a remote chance

 
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