Care to give some relationship advice?

I've been thinking about my ex a lot lately, and I really do miss him, but I hurt him so bad when I broke up with him (yes, I'm having second thoughts). We broke up over a year ago and haven't spoken to each other since. Should I try to contact him again to see how he's doing, or should I just forget about it?

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SpaceCreature · 26-30, F

It’s been a year.. surely no one would want to bring up the past.

quietlitany · 36-40, M

why'd you break up?

melovemycats · 26-30, F

@quietlitany Well, umm (this is going to make me look bad), I kind of "cheated" on him. I put "cheated" in quotation marks because I didn't go on a date or even kiss this other person; I simply replied "yes" when they asked me out. Me and my boyfriend weren't hanging out a lot, so I guess I was feeling lonely, which is why I said yes. I immediately regretted it and called it off, and I got it in my head that I needed to break up with my boyfriend for what I did. I told my boyfriend about it, and he didn't think it was a big deal and said he would forgive me. At the time, I thought he was stupid for not breaking up with me, so I broke up with him instead. Sorry for the long reply 😕

quietlitany · 36-40, M

@melovemycats Leave him alone then.

JupiterDreams · 31-35

Message him and see if he's still interested.

CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M

You should first see if he's moved on.

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MsAnnThropy

No.

Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

If you care about him, about what is best for him more than you care about what you want. Then you will not bother him.

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