How to stop lustful thoughts of other people?

I have a boyfriend now...I really want us to work out. But the multitude of crushes I've had before dating him, they just don't disappear like that. Any time I see them in person or online, I have dirty thoughts. Like really!?!? Can I not just be satisfied with one person? Why don't I have these thoughts about him 24/7? Why must my mind insist on thinking about guys that are impossible to have?

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romell · 51-55, M

run ten miles a day ..u would be to tired to think

LUVELACE · T

64 million dollar question,i cant stop myself looking at a nice cute butt,or crotch area,sometimes i could slap myself with some of the thoughts that go through my mind,

UreBesFrend · M

I think anything that makes your passion grow is a good thing, just so long as you keep it hidden nobody ever needs to know.

ManicMicah · 22-25, M

@UreBesFrend I just feel like a bad person...I have this person who's wiling to be with a fuck-up like me...how do I repay him? By beating off to a multitude of other guys.

ScarletWitch · 26-30, F

Then its not true love.

ManicMicah · 22-25, M

@ScarletWitch We started dating a week ago. I'm not thinking of this as "true love" yet. This happens when I date ANYONE...just because I start dating someone, doesn't stop the thoughts towards over twenty other people.

ScarletWitch · 26-30, F

Im sure he has the same thoughts of others, as you do.

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