What's the best way to be honest with someone u like?

@Majorlatency I'm a bit confused?!! You mean to say act like a gold digger?!

@Shewolfiie69 No of course not. Share with me your innermost secrets including your social insurance number and we can be good to go. .

@Mordi you're hilarious! I have found that when u wish or do something bad towards others...it comes back to u 10 fold!

@Shewolfiie69 Maybe I am confused. I thought you were trying to tell someone you like, that you like them but maybe it’s something else. What’s the discussion about?

@ShadowedWhispers it's that u already like them as a person and friend but...when something they did or said was insensitive or negative...is it my place to correct them or point it out because we're friends...

@Shewolfiie69 Aww. That’s very different all together. Depends on how close you are, I guess. I am a very direct person. If it is insensitive or inappropriate then I personally address it immediately but I try to not be brutal or callous in the way I address it. Some people still have trouble handling how direct I am and in that case it may be better all around if we just go our own way.

@Justbychance thx but many hate hearing the truth!

@Shewolfiie69[quote]many hate hearing the truth[/quote]

People not wanting to know the truth are, often, in denial. A part of self-preservation is to NOT want to know the truth for fear it may cause more pain, suffering our heartache. I think it right to say there are situations in life where it would be considered better to hold back the truth ... or ... prepare someone before they are told the truth. Often, the truth can hurt a person into them believing that the person who tells them the truth is causing them to hurt. There's a lot to be said about telling the 'respectful truth' to someone who we think needs it, or someone who needs it more than they think. Often-times the truth we don't speak of is more than likely going to come from elsewhere; we can take that as a considered option in not being honest.

A very emotive topic, that's for sure. A topic where a person might consider protecting someone from the truth IS the right way to go. Casting aside morals, would I 'protect' a person in not being honest with them? In all honesty, I'm sure there will have been times I have done so, but I don't suggest that I did the right thing ... more than I think I did what I [i]considered[/i] to be right at the time :)

@ShadowedWhispers I like u! Thx!!!

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@Shewolfiie69 I’m guessing you mean more so, how do I make it clear I like this person. If that’s the question, you just have to be direct.

@Bluesky53 thx very much for ur realistic approach!!!❤️

@SW-User ppl can't seem to handle THE TRUTH!!!

@Shewolfiie69 they definitely deal better with a first pain than a poison that's been waiting to take effect

@Jackaloftheazuresand I'm guessing that ur trying to be funny?

@sspec thx sweetheart! I'm so depressed cause it's coming up on the one yr anniversary of my moms death! Any suggestions?

@Shewolfiie69 🤗 Face the facts, dear friend. [b][c=#BF6900]Mom is always there in your heart. She is blessing you each nanosecond and watching over you.[/c][/b]
Pick up the delicate threads and do what your heart says, remember to do it with the sincerest notion to not harm anyone in any way.
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Bests! Sending energy your way.

@Shewolfiie69 Why the question mark?

@Mugin16 my mistake about "?."

@Shewolfiie69 Ok. Glad to hear that you will be honest. :-)

@redredred that's correct in theory but I may care too much...

@Shewolfiie69 care too much to tell them what makes you happy?

@SakuraShimeji sounds great in theory! However, there are times that it's difficult to be honest even though u know it's their problem...,

Ask them to hang out. @Shewolfiie69

@Graciebaby yup! I've suffered a lot in my life and hate hurting anyone if I don't have to!!!

Sometimes theres no other way to, sweety.

@Graciebaby you are absolutely correct my wise and compassionate light!

@Snyderp69 ARENT u the flatterer!!!

@Shewolfiie69 I’m just being honest. You are breath taking. So gorgeous. Love your eyes.

@AlphaCuckTX I almost always keep it real!

@Spoiledbrat I hear u! But within reason! U don't want to push away too hard!!!