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How do you deal with it when you cant get over your ex-spouse and you don't want to go on?

Remind yourself there are other people out there who are capable of loving you and vice versa. You are probably not meant to be together. Find a way of building a newer happier future. It does work. If you don't move on things will just stay the same
ElPhonse · M
@Cutiepi23 some people are able to do that. We were together 23 years and that feels like a lifetime. To find myself out of her world is like dying.
@ElPhonse yeah I know I was married for a long time to that's why I can relate ...took me a number of years of working at being my own person and having my own identity. I still think of my ex from time to time. Time alone doesn't heal anything it's what you do in that time. Sorry to hear your so sad 😘
ElPhonse · M
Ty. I'll be back on tonight. Want to ask you about your experience. Ttyl i hope.
you have to let it go unfortunately. Anyway it's best to not be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. You'll find someone else better eventually even if you don't believe in that or want to right now..
ElPhonse · M
I am home now. Just rushed home. Dont feel safe outside. Had bad thoughts while driving and some about drinking again and also thinking about ramming myself into a pole.
SW-User
It means you are unromantic and you don't have love in your heart for other people.
ElPhonse · M
@SW-User i am very romantic. To put it into perspective, you are an adult now between 26 and 30 but when she and i met and fell in love, you were between 3 and 7. Imagine if you found yourself in a different world, without those you grew up loving and living with about a year ago ?
SW-User
@ElPhonse That though thing to imagine. I realise now that you and her must have had a long marriage.
ElPhonse · M
Yup
ElPhonse · M
We met April 23rd 1993 at the Copacabana nightclub in New York city and fell in love quickly. Married Valentines Day 1995. Sorry i chose that day.
ElPhonse · M
Need to talk to someone. Not safe alone. Feeling at risk for drinking or worse. I took a 10 gram melatonin. Got to sleep. Cant deal with these feelings
ElPhonse · M
Have to go back to work but i'll be back here tonight. This site is all i have once i return to an empty house after work every day.
Learn to let go, only when you've truly lost someone special to you (eg through death in my case) can you let go
Lolco · 36-40, M
bro I hear you 🍻
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ElPhonse · M
@Fernie i want you to say NOTHING ic you cant say anything supportive !

 
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