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Madhatter · 31-35, M
If you have to convince them, then that may be your problem right there. Stop going for people who don't like you, so you have to convince them that they should. Find someone who just does. Someone you naturally click with.
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you pretty much just end up in pain. i know people say its not healthy but i tend to close myself off from people. i had really deeply cared about someone before that doesnt feel very good.
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You dont go convincing someone
Just let it be
Just let it be
whateverhappens · 26-30, F
its stress and chances are they wouldnt care for u back, its best not waste ur time on stupid ppl
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
I usually have to convince myself that I like them. 🤷
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dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@Hugosfbay sadly, its not this time. 😑
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Everyone will find someone that truly loves them if they look hard enough
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LeahUnknown · 41-45, F
I agree to much work for to much pain in the end
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Mguinm · 51-55, F
Why do you have to convince them to like you? It shouldn't be that much work. You are young to be giving up on love. I should have long ago with all my failures but I'm glad I hung in there to meet my soulie.
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It depends on who you are. In my case, I'm last person to fall in love with:
I'm too cold.
Too introverted.
Too scarred.
Intimacy and romantic love is not for me.
And that's ok.
There are other things that have meaning and are equally as rewarding.
I'm too cold.
Too introverted.
Too scarred.
Intimacy and romantic love is not for me.
And that's ok.
There are other things that have meaning and are equally as rewarding.
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I understand. I'm emotionally flatlined majority of the time. I don't have emotions strongly or at all. Someone deserves better than that.
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
Idk. Only if it's best for you lol
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
Well I have. I am done done done with all that shit!!!! BUT... You are a bit young to be making a decision like that. Give a few more years.
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no, its a good thing to give up on love for the wrong person... This is usually the case
I feel the same.
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It can happen.