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Girl trouble. Advice?

Girl I knew since 2011 ans even dated told me recently if I were to leave she would respect my decision? Who says that. I don't think she cares for me anymore. Long story short I told her if she can't honestly tell me if I'm worthwhile anymore then we can't be friends. Here I am a week later wanting to mend those bridges. Should I?
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
Some women leave the door open because they dont feel worthy or they feel youre already leaving anyway.
CuddleFeesh · 31-35, M
@NeuroticByNature that actually may very well be the case
SoFine · 46-50, F
1. Maybe that this relationship has reached it's turn point.
2. To let go is hard, then you 2 have gotten what you got, time to move on.
3. Do you feel stagnation with her, not fun, no growth.?
4. Some people do suit us up to a point, then in order for us move into our next phase, we switch, happens allot.
5. Have you established your two tools of self-love and self-worth. The only one to validate and complete, you is you.
6. Your happy in life, is all up to you. Not one other person will ever have you be happy. You can be alone and happy. People can ADD to us, they can never fill, what is empty with, within.

Have fun, most important is to be you.
Personally, I would not have interpreted her comment in that way. I would have responded with, "Thank you, and if you were to leave me, I would respect your decision too. I really like it that we are together because we freely choose it."

Find out what she needs, and then figure out if that is something you would enjoy giving.

If how you behave in the relationship meets most of her needs for friendship, love and sexual pleasure, then she will most likely want to stay with you. And hopefully she meets yours in the same ways.
TheDogfather · 36-40, M
What did you do that made her say she would respect your decision if you left?
CuddleFeesh · 31-35, M
@TheDogfather I don't know. She says she feels hollow. That's why I'm thinking of going back. Is it her fault? Should I be the good friend stay anyway
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Fawma123 · 46-50, M
From a woman's point of view time to move on
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
Oooo. GL with that.
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