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What makes them cheat . Even when you think the relationship is going right

JustAnotherPizzaLover · 22-25, M
Being assholes tends to be part of their problem. I'm just glad my father taught me to treat women better than that. If you don't want to be with someone, have the balls to break it off with them before just throwing yourself at other women...
Some have no integrity, morals, or conscience. And because some know their spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend won't raise a fuss. They just put up with it. They know they'll be no consequences. Plus, they only pretend to be "sorry" when they're caught, but even then, they try to lie out of it, and they're very lousy at it. It depends how much you love yourself, as to what you'll put up with. If you value your worth, you won't put up with it. And if [i]they[/i] value your worth, they won't want to even risk it. They'll already know your value.
Nothing [i]makes[/i] them cheat. They just choose to. Blame is not taking responsibility for their own choices.
WoodyAq · M
Opportunity... a desire for novelty, and it doesn't mean the relationship isn't going well.
No. It means the one cheating, has no conscience and doesn't value the other person. @WoodyAq
WoodyAq · M
@LadyGrace hmmm, I wouldn't go that far. People do thoughtless things sometimes ... that doesn't mean they never think ...
@WoodyAq I would. Cheating is never right. That's just it. They should.
SW-User
Variety is the spice of life
Not at someone else's expense. @SW-User
@LadyGrace Your word either means something or it doesn't. Your significant either means something or they don't. It is always wrong.
Nothing makes someone cheat. There are some unfortunately in both genders that cannot be faithful. Find another.
Fernie · F
They have NO clue what the words Love and Loyalty mean
SW-User
Unfulfilled sexual demand. My father cheats on my mother as she can no longer sexually satisfy him anymore.
@SW-User There was no question in God's mind, whether the conditions determined the decision. I'm not trying to condemn or judge here. That's not my place. I'm simply giving my opinion, and stating God's standards on this subject. I'm sorry this situation has occurred.
SW-User
@LadyGrace It's alright. Every opinion matters :)
@SW-User It does. Everyone's. ❤️🤗
Fannyann · 61-69, F
I really thought all was well.
Northwest · M
1. Because they can.

2. Cheating cannot happen on its own, you need an equally responsible accomplice.

If you can do it, leave. If you cannot do it immediately, start planning for it.
@Northwest Cheating is the responsibility of one person. The one who chooses it. No one makes them cheat. There are other options that person could have chosen, if they're unhappy. Cheating is always wrong. One needs to take responsibility for their own actions and choices.
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
The grass is always greener. They see the sides of the grass over the fence and think WoW. They forget that when they get over the fence and look down, they'll see all the nitty gritty detail they have in their current lives😁
goneeee · F
Insecurity, temptation, stupidity, they think someone is hot, charismatic, sexy, etc. Both sexes are guilty giving in, without considering the hurt and dedtruction they have begun.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
If you think the relationship is good and he still cheats it is most likely him trying to compensate for his insecurities. Not much you can do about that.
whateverhappens · 26-30, F
i did in the past cause he did, but if u call talking too other people cheating then yes, he did & i did it too hurt him back.
LordSillio · 36-40, M
Seem going right but obviously not
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Fernie · F
@nedkelly when it comes to Women ned...I ignore everything you say because you absolutely hate us.In all the many years you and I have been online together you have never had a good word to say about women. It's a rare opportunity to give it back to a male since I am called a "man hater" so frequently because I detest the piggy, caveman behaviors they exhibit...you are a woman hater
nedkelly · 61-69, M
@Fernie Still married after 37 years, 80-90% of my clients are female - maybe you should look in the mirror and not be so full of hate - just stating the obvious fact
Fernie · F
@nedkelly and many, many, many times you have badmouthed your wife and women in general...THAT is a fact

 
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