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Her ex moved right next door to her. Can I freak out now?

Seriously, it's creepy...
It's only creepy if he is stalking her, but not creepy at all if they are friends and she suggested he move closer because they have a good solid friendship.

Two years after I broke up with a girlfriend, and having stayed friends over that entire time, I suggested that she move in and rent a room from me. She ended up staying for almost 3 years. It was one of the best room mate experiences I have ever had. No issues with jealousy or me having dates over. In a weird way it actually worked to my favor in this cases.
@CesareBorgia She can handle herself, I just don't know what the details are so I worry. It's probably nothing, but if it's something I'll wanna be there for her.
If it is something she needs to concern herself with, better than you would be law enforcement. You, legally, can do almost nothing unless you felt that she was in immediate and imminent danger of being the victim of serious harm or death. And even at that, you could only use so much force as was necessary to detain that person, you couldn't use unreasonable force. If your own life was being threatened it's a bit different and the laws per each state differ somewhat.

If I were you I would be very careful how you involve yourself in something like this. Being there for someone doesn't mean you have to protect them physically, you could simply just be a witness.

I think as well, if you are that concerned, you should ask her if she is concerned, and if not, stop worrying about her as you said she can take care of herself.
@CesareBorgia I could ask her. Seems like it would put my mind at ease.
SW-User
That is creepy is her ex stalking her?
@SW-User She can handle herself, but I would say yes.
SW-User
that's sucky last thing I would want is my ex moving next door
SW-User
thats a bit freaky
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