Ever got someone angry at you, because they were trying and you didn't notice?

Apparently I've upset a woman I know by not acknowledging her sexiness. Problem is, I couldn't tell that I was supposed to. She's cute for sure, but really nothing seemed out of the ordinary. She wore regular clothes and didn't respond to the compliments I did give her. Am I missing something here?

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DancingStarGoddess ·

yes lol, frequently. hate when people assume that just because they're interested i have to reciprocate. no you didnt do anything wrong either. sounds like they were playing games and wanted you to keep playing in a certain way.

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Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@DancingStarGoddess See, that's confusing too though. She's got kids and a number of boyfriends before me. I never imagined she'd be so shy about it. Maybe she's used to guys chasing after her?

DancingStarGoddess ·

@Xuan12 oh, well i'm not sure what to think then, definitely gonna need to ask her about that for sure, that's a lot of mixed stuff going on

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@DancingStarGoddess @_@ Complicated. This is why I didn't pick up on it in the first place.

UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M

Yep. I swear some people think you can read their minds or some shit.

SW-User

When I was in my 20's I waited tables. I had this one boss and he kept saying nice things to me, but I was married and didn't even think about it being flirting. One night he came right out and told me, "How is a guy supposed to get you to notice him?"..He was really mad..I didn't return to that job..

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

She wants you to notice her on your own and not have to point it out. She obviously thinks she is giving you clear signals.

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Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@JaggedLittlePill Maybe another time. She's really upset at me. Said I've shaken her confidence. I feel sorry for her, I didn't mean to.

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

@Xuan12 I think that is pretty unfair of her

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@JaggedLittlePill Maybe, I just think everything would have gone a lot smoother if she had talked to me sooner.

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