I Hate Myself

I really dislike many of my character traits some of them I really hate but many just dislike. and the worst part is I don't know how to change them. I do not like that Iam lazy, chatty,emotional, sensitive,not smart and needy.I know im making myself seem like a bad person, but the good characteristics for some reason I do not care about as much becasue i feel like everyone has them like kindness,good listener, the need to be better things like that. I think to myself often, I just dont understand how can i be born hating many of my own character traits. feel free to share what you have a problem with in your life.