I Believe Long Distance Relationship Can Work

It can. For a while. Good communication and a strong resolve is all it takes at first. But as time goes by and you're out of that rainbows and butterflies phase, reality smacks you in the face. You'll never be able love her and hold her the way she wants you to. There'll be a limit to how much you can comfort her when she's down and at her worst. When all she needs is a warm hug to make her sorrows disappear and you feel helpless being so far away. No amount of talking over the phone will equal a moment of lovingly staring into her eyes. When she is faced with a dilemma and you wish with all your heart you could just be there for her. In the end, it all catches up to you. No matter how much you love her or how much attention you give her... circumstances will tear you apart.

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Bookwrmgirl · 46-50, F

I'm in a LDR. We get together regularly and more often now. We adore each other. The most difficult part is that I like a lot of sex, a lot of touching, kissing. I masterbate and it helps when he's part of it. But sometimes I just miss his warmth, whispered voice, the sighs. :-(

TheFlash

I know what you mean. You miss being intimate when your heart desires it

Bookwrmgirl · 46-50, F

Yes. We have amazing intimacy all the time. Our sex is so good I miss that too. But there's a lot of waiting for the warmth I physically need.

TheFlash

Yeah the waiting is the hard part. Just don't get tired of waiting though. You know he's worth it !

Bookwrmgirl · 46-50, F

He is worth it. He's the best man I've ever loved

TheFlash

@Bookwrmgirl: Well, I'm glad for you. Hope your bonds remain strong :)

Bookwrmgirl · 46-50, F

Thank you. Are you in a LDR? We are strong-we communicate well

TheFlash

@Bookwrmgirl: Nope. Sadly, it didn't work out for me.
N it's good that you do. Keep it up !