I Am Depressed Because I'm Lonely

I am tired of feeling lonely, unloved, depressed and just existing.
I'm a very loving gay man and live a decent life. I long to be in a loving relationship with also a decent loving gay man. I don't do bars and I have no gay friends.
I'm a masculine guy and have so much to offer another.
Loneliness and having no one to talk to, laugh with, do things with I just can't bare anymore alone.
I'm making preparations to end my sadness and loneliness.
I guess I'm not good enough for love to love me.
Can anyone give advice or just chat with me.

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SStarfish ·

Sorry you are sad.. Have you tried any dating sites? If you don't go out much then you won't meet many people and also if you are very masculine then people might not know you are gay so..

MellowLeo · 56-60, M

@SStarfish Hey ZeroG. I go to Barnes and Noble to read about furthering my studies on Buddhist teachings and enlightenment. I go for nature walks and ride my bike along river sides. I'm a very nature kinda guy.
Yet, I'm a gay masculine man. Not like a super macho guy. Just average man...I guess.

SStarfish ·

I think you need to go on a dating site or something wear a t shirt that says you are gay if you dare.. otherwise people will just assume you are straight eh? and not chat you up as you seem reserved and a loner? not very approachable to other gays maybe? who don't know you are also gay?

MellowLeo · 56-60, M

Your funny...lol
I wouldn't dare. My respectful reputation will be damaged. Also, it's not necessary to go to such lengths to get attention.
But, duly noted...😂

Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F

Hope you find love

MellowLeo · 56-60, M

@Butterflykisses24 Thank you Daisy48. I appreciate your helpfulness. I doubt it though bcuz people are so wrapped up in superficial living these days. Everything must be this way or that way. Looks, physical appearance, financial status, etc...
I'm just a down to earth kinda man.
Not caught up in determining if someone has value based on this or that.

Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F

@MellowLeo you seem nice.Get out there and meet people.

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