Are you in too deep?

I don't know the answer. Maybe I am deep cos I can understand all people around me by watching them. But at the same time, I don't feel I am a deep person because I usually don't know what to say when people are sorrowful. Sometimes I realize that I tend to put my sorrows over the others' sorrows and think that " they don't really know what sorrows are". The fact is that unhappy feeling is something that we can not compare

Is there such a thing?

No I don't think I have ever been too deep