If you send someone a selfie after you’ve been texting back & forth consistently for a full hour...

and they don’t respond or comment about your selfie right away, do you automatically think they’re no longer interested in you?

If someone sends me pics, I do my best to respond right away because I don’t want them to think that I thought anything bad of their selfie.

I’m not referring to someone who sends you d pics out of the blue, but someone you’ve been talking to for a while.

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mysteryespresso

Yes.

marsbar · F

@mysteryespresso I think it’s natural to want a response to your selfie, especially if the other person is the one who asked for it.

mysteryespresso

@marsbar @marsbar not interested anymore.

marsbar · F

@mysteryespresso Yes, that’s what I think as well. I’ll get a text later saying they liked my pic, but when so much time has lapsed, the sentiment is lost.

mysteryespresso

@marsbar true.

That person might be making a mistake though. Sometimes we don’t like the selfie pic but we like the person when we talk to them on video call and meet them face to face

marsbar · F

@mysteryespresso That’s very true. Online & video call chemistry can vary greatly than face-to-face. Face-to-face is the most telling.