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Oh god. I’m trying to psyche myself up to send that plumber with the gorgeous eyes a text asking if he’d like to go out for coffee. 😬🙈

I typed out this text & just have to hit send. 😬

“Hi *******. I know this is coming out of left field, but I was wondering if you’re single and would be interested in going out for coffee sometime.”

I’ve never done anything like this before. 😬🙈
marsbar · F
Ok SWeeps. I sent him the text an hour ago. Once I pressed send, I screamed. 🤣. I haven’t heard back yet, but it’s cool if I don’t, or he says no. It’s not going to affect me negatively. At least I said I did it & tried.

*pats myself on the back* 😂
SW-User
@marsbar Yaaaaaaaaaaay
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
@marsbar Good for you!
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@marsbar

I hope he more Super than Mario.

marsbar · F
Oh my god I’m so nervous that I can’t stop laughing. And you guys aren’t helping with my giggles. 😓😆🤣
marsbar · F
@SW-User @MrBlueGuy @iamonfire696 Sent
SW-User
@marsbar Good girl 😌
@marsbar He'd be a fool to not respond!
BlueVeins · 22-25
That sounds like an awesome first text! Go get him girl!
marsbar · F
@BlueVeins Trying. Lol
SW-User
Whats the worst that he can say? No? I would go for it. You got nothing to lose.
marsbar · F
@SW-User Nada. Oh well. That’s fine. But I did hear from another guy. 😅
SW-User
@marsbar Awe, well at least someone else seems interested🤗
marsbar · F
@SW-User There are a few interested. There’s never a drought. 😅
Benjr134 · M
Well here’s to hoping his response isn’t a dick pic.
marsbar · F
@Benjr134 I don’t think he’s the type. Lol
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
As a wise person told me once, “Babe Ruth holds the record for home runs. He also holds the record for being struck out most times. If you don’t swing you won’t connect”. That was years ago but still hold true. Also if you fail, hold your head high and try again another day.
marsbar · F
@SageWanderer Wise words. Thank you ☺️
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
@marsbar Yes they were. And from an old football coach many, many years ago.
SW-User
SW-User
@marsbar [i][b]Do iiiittt![/b][/i] You only live once!
marsbar · F
@SW-User 😵😂
SW-User
@marsbar Push send. Do it. Do it now!
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
I'm glad you sent it and I hope he texts you back
marsbar · F
@ronisme1 I didn’t even look at his hands. 😅
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@marsbar oh, all eye contact then
marsbar · F
Coldplay · 56-60, M
Honestly. I would be flattered. So I would encourage you to do it. I think this is great and I hope he accepts.
marsbar · F
@Coldplay Thanks 😇
Reject · 26-30, M
Yay! I’m so happy to see this post. Do it. There’s no regrets that way. Also, too many of us keep good feelings to ourselves when reaching out with our positive vibes only makes the world better for everyone.
marsbar · F
@Reject We’ll see what happens S. I tried though right? 😇
Reject · 26-30, M
@marsbar Yes! You did the best thing you could’ve done here. I have to do the same. I’ve been meaning to talk to this girl at the station but haven’t gotten the chance. Be sure to update us, okay?
marsbar · F
@Reject Awww you should S. Start off as friends & see what vibes you get from her. Then muster up the courage. Just know that if things don’t go the way you want them to, you can pick up yourself & move on from it. 😇

I will. 😁
marsbar · F
Trippy · F
You got this!! Go for it ❤️
SW-User
I don't know it could go both ways. Some guys are flattered by it while others think it's a desperate move. Anyways good luck.
marsbar · F
@SW-User Thanks
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@SW-User all guys would be flattered
SW-User
@ronisme1 no all guys would not be
test9876 · 56-60, M
Did You send it? It's better than saying 'help, i need you to come back here my toilet is clogged' lol
test9876 · 56-60, M
@marsbar well that would be a nice ice breaker lol
marsbar · F
@MrBlueGuy He did, & I felt were vibing in our conversation.
@marsbar YEEES 😩👌
Take a shot of liquid courage and do it. You are hella gorgeous unless he's in a relationship I'm positive he'll respond xD
marsbar · F
@MrBlueGuy Lol. Well he’s already seen me & my house.
@marsbar So there's half the battle xD
willyemmosher · 61-69, M
A plumber is a good guy to know
willyemmosher · 61-69, M
@marsbar I can be all of those,
willyemmosher · 61-69, M
@marsbar and a mechanic
marsbar · F
@willyemmosher Yes, & I forgot a landscaper. 😁
SW-User
It's nice to do it even if it's only for the excitement of it. 👌😉
marsbar · F
@SW-User Yes, like I’m a giddy school girl. 😅
CestManan · 46-50, F
Just say, "...and maybe afterwards, you can give MY plumbing a good inspection and cleaning".

For real though, even if he declines for whatever reason, he will be flattered because when a woman asks out a man, it means he didn't have to do the asking so less work.
marsbar · F
@CestManan I hope he’s not weirded out. 😅
CestManan · 46-50, F
@marsbar I was kidding about the plumbing joke. It is not real likely that he would mind being asked out though. I mean unless he is in his 20's, then it might go over kind of awkward.
marsbar · F
@CestManan I’m guessing he’s in his 30’s. And most of the guys I’ve dated are in that age range.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Go ahead and do it. Better than always wondering if.
marsbar · F
@MrBrownstone Wondering for over an hour now. Lol
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
Well what's the worse that an happen!
marsbar · F
@Shutterbug You’d have a platonically good time with me Batman. 😌✌🏼
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
@marsbar oh that’s disappointing 😔
marsbar · F
@Shutterbug Awww lol 🤗
Don’t do it plumbers are notorious pervs lol
marsbar · F
@GBPackersFan Lol. He wasn’t. I got good vibes from him.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
Do it!
Get those pipes cleaned
marsbar · F
@JRVanguard You’re so bad J! 😆
@JRVanguard bad boy. lol
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
Should have asked for a visit again for some plumbing job and offered coffee to sense his moves and response to your openness first I guess.. That would have certainly helped I reckon. Good luck to you babe 😘❤
marsbar · F
@LongHairedCougar I saw him on Wednesday, & on Friday I texted to say I’m getting other estimates, so he knew I wasn’t going with him. So there’s no way I could’ve asked him to come by again.

Thanks :)
LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F
@marsbar I meant before you even texted you should have thought of the other thing that I mentioned.. Maybe it would have worked for you.. After all you found yourself to be attracted to that young fellow.. Hence I thought of sharing.. Anyway happy hunting babes 😘
marsbar · F
@LongHairedCougar No, I wouldn’t have done that. He already spent 1.5 hrs at my house going over all my plumbing issues, so there’s no way I could’ve asked him to come by again. There would’ve been no need, & he knew it having been here already.
masterofyou · 70-79, M
I would but my slave would be jealous.... Coffee that is ..
MtnManJohn · 56-60, M
Wishing the best for you!
marsbar · F
@MtnManJohn Thanks 😊
SW-User
go for it girl.
life is too short for regrets
Piper · 61-69, F
The only harm in sending that perfectly unobjectionable text, is of course the possibility of rejection. Only you know if the risk of that, is worth never knowing what might have happened if you didn't.😶
marsbar · F
@Piper Yes. I’ll be fine with a rejection. Lol
Piper · 61-69, F
@marsbar I see you've gone ahead and sent the text, and I hope the outcome is nothing but [i]good[/i].
marsbar · F
@Piper Thank you 😊
lilacs · 41-45, F
There's no harm in asking him.
fun4us2b · M
I hope it works out!
marsbar · F
@fun4us2b Thank you 😇
Byron8by7 · M
Go for it. Life is short.
Do it damn it ... 😄
marsbar · F
@Somewhereovertherainbow Are you living vicariously through me? 😄
TexChik · F
😊... Aww! You should !
AlyAngel · F
marsbar · F
@AlyAngel Thanks 😇
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Whyme · 46-50, M
Giver a go what's the worst that happens
marsbar · F
@Whyme Haven’t heard back yet.
Whyme · 46-50, M
@marsbar no worries make be a work phone hope it all goes well and if not live to fight another day
marsbar · F
@Whyme Thanks :)
nowic2 · 61-69, M
I assume you have done it by now. Well done for be brave. Love to hear the response. 👍
marsbar · F
@nowic2 No response yet. I think that’s my answer.
nowic2 · 61-69, M
@marsbar glad you said yet & regardless. At least you tried, some there's a better chance of success that if you didn't make the effort.
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
Do it, nothing to lose.
You could even make it funny
Maybe end by saying "I hope you don't think I'm plumb crazy....." 🤣
marsbar · F
@JoePourMan Lol. Too late. Already sent.
Go for it, if it doesn't work out at least he can plunge your P trap..
marsbar · F
@Majorlatency The words that come out of your mouth never cease to amaze me. 🤣🤣
@marsbar yes I know. I'm sending myself straight to bed with no supper.
AbbySvenz · F
Are you going to have him check your plumbing? 😏
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@AbbySvenz She needs to be snaked.
marsbar · F
@AbbySvenz He checked all my pipes last Wednesday. Lol
marsbar · F
You have plenty of moxy to do this .

And there's no loss in trying.

Man....I hope he isn't gay🤣
marsbar · F
@BoobooSnafu I hope not too. Lol
Penny · 46-50, F
i wouldnt ask about the coffee until you got your answer if he's single or not.
marsbar · F
@MrBlueGuy Nope. But it’s fine. Other fish in the sea I’m talking to.
@marsbar SO many dang fish in the sea! And I remember you posting your latest pedicure...no man could resist such cuteness! 🥰
marsbar · F
@MrBlueGuy Thanks 😇
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Very nice. I hope it happens for you
marsbar · F
@Eddiesolds Thanks 😁
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@marsbar you're welcome Mars 🤗
Do a poll and go with the popular vote!
marsbar · F
@questionWeaver Too late. Lol. Plus the popular vote was to go for it.
uncleshawn · 41-45, M
You've never had coffee before?
marsbar · F
@uncleshawn A few times. Lol
Allelse · 36-40, M
Looking to get nailed?
marsbar · F
@Allelse Looking for a connection first
Allelse · 36-40, M
@marsbar Awwwwwwwwwwwww!!! Big sweetheart.

 
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