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I鈥檓 thinking about going to stay with this guy I started talking to.... I mean I barely know him but I don鈥檛 wanna be at home anymore. Like I feel like I鈥檒l never be anything just being here all the time.. the only reason I鈥檝e been trying to stay is to help my mom with my sister鈥檚 kids since she鈥檚 abandoned them for a psycho.. but other than that I would have left ages ago. Idk what to do
LadyGrace Best Comment
Big mistake for a lot of reasons. For one, what if you end up pregnant? It is not unrealistic that it could happen. Secondly, you're jumping into something too quickly. Thirdly, you don't really know this guy or what he's about. He could be very abusive for all you know, even if he acts as sweet as pie. Fourth, you need to plan out your life, not leave it to chance. Fifth, why tie yourself down so soon? Get yourself a job and an apartment, make that your first priority in life. Get established and have a steady income from a job you enjoy. Then you can do what you want. That way you can be independent and not rely on anyone, if plans fall through. Get your head together.
DeathNote22-25, F
Yeah you鈥檙e right.馃槪@LadyGrace
@DeathNote I added more. See above.

TamarindCorncob41-45, F
Beware going from the frying pan into the fire, in my two cents. You know what you've got there at home. But you've no clue by your own admission where you are running to, right?
Thank you dear, for best answer. I just hope all turns out well for you and you think this through very carefully. I wish I had had a mentor when I was your age. It would have saved me a lot of heartache and mistakes .
DeathNote22-25, F
Aw no problem, thanks for that though. I really needed it 馃 @LadyGrace
@DeathNote I know it's sometimes hard to hear, but I want so much for you to just be happy and that is certainly the wrong path to take.
chuck788261-69, M
Your sister's kids sorta need you right now, so I would say stay
FORMERLYbatovn56-60, M
Don't be in a big hurry....you're young and being at home for a bit longer, while stressful, would give you time to save money and do any schooling or find a place of your own. Going to a guy you barely know is a quick way to end up on the side of a milk carton or on the 6 o clock news....get to know him and build some understanding and trust.....just my thoughts...
MURD3RM0NK3Y26-30, M
Come up with some sort of plan. You don't know this guy well so you don't know how living with him is going to be like. Have you talked to this guy about moving in with him ? Is he ok with it ? Do you have to pay rent ? Those are all things I would be asking myself if I were in your shoes.
SW-User
Psycho? Abonded? Have you talked to DHS or police?
if your siblings are in real danger than this is something that you might want to think about.
Another thing to think about is your moms situation may have come about by her not thinking and just jumping into this relationship, you might get another pyscho in your life if you move in with this person
midnightsun26-30, M
Be careful lol
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StevetheSleeve31-35, M
The guy invited you to stay with him without knowing you very well? Oh no.
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