What would you do?
I am a second wife. My husband's first wife was a very pretty lady and a troubled one according to my husband and in-laws.
They were only married 6 weeks.
Because he found out she was incapable of managing duties that are a part of marriage.
My husband was so caught up in her good looks he couldn't see she had emotional troubles.
For ex. She couldn't even do housework and prepare meals.
He just thought she was cleaning their apartment and preparing meals, he found out the hard way
that wasn't so.
He came home early from work one afternoon and he found his mother in law had cleaned the apartment and was preparing their meal.
He also found out his mother inlaw would wait everyday for him to leave for work and she would come over and cook and clean
She had performed these chores since the day they married.
When I was dating him he constantly talked about his ex wife he did so much I became concerned about why he was constantly talking about her.
I asked my best friend and consulted a phone conseler why he was doing this I was told to be patient and let him talk in time he would stop
After we married he still talked about her constantly he pulled out an wedding album and showed me the photos and he drove me passed her childhood home.
He didn't bother to remove his ex wife clothing and jewelry from dresser drawers before I move in after marriage.
I called his brother and his wife told me to pray for him and when I told her I wondered if it was worth me staying with him
She started telling about how she had problems with her husband but she decided to stay and that the Lord wanted me to hang in there.
My husband talk about his first wife was become 24/7 and I was getting depressed.
I decided about 2 months after marriage to him to stop I was tired about hearing him mourn over ex.
He stopped.
He never went on a long talking binge about her again.
But what I learned over years he stopped talking about her to me but I couldn't make him stop thinking of her.
During 2012 one day out of blue he spoke up and said,
"You Know I thought if I married you I would forget my first wife but I realize that didn't work."
Well this came as no surprise because suspected years ago he still carried a torch for lady.
Our marriage hasn't the greatest but I tried to do the I could in this situation
How would you feel if you were in a relationship like mine?
They were only married 6 weeks.
Because he found out she was incapable of managing duties that are a part of marriage.
My husband was so caught up in her good looks he couldn't see she had emotional troubles.
For ex. She couldn't even do housework and prepare meals.
He just thought she was cleaning their apartment and preparing meals, he found out the hard way
that wasn't so.
He came home early from work one afternoon and he found his mother in law had cleaned the apartment and was preparing their meal.
He also found out his mother inlaw would wait everyday for him to leave for work and she would come over and cook and clean
She had performed these chores since the day they married.
When I was dating him he constantly talked about his ex wife he did so much I became concerned about why he was constantly talking about her.
I asked my best friend and consulted a phone conseler why he was doing this I was told to be patient and let him talk in time he would stop
After we married he still talked about her constantly he pulled out an wedding album and showed me the photos and he drove me passed her childhood home.
He didn't bother to remove his ex wife clothing and jewelry from dresser drawers before I move in after marriage.
I called his brother and his wife told me to pray for him and when I told her I wondered if it was worth me staying with him
She started telling about how she had problems with her husband but she decided to stay and that the Lord wanted me to hang in there.
My husband talk about his first wife was become 24/7 and I was getting depressed.
I decided about 2 months after marriage to him to stop I was tired about hearing him mourn over ex.
He stopped.
He never went on a long talking binge about her again.
But what I learned over years he stopped talking about her to me but I couldn't make him stop thinking of her.
During 2012 one day out of blue he spoke up and said,
"You Know I thought if I married you I would forget my first wife but I realize that didn't work."
Well this came as no surprise because suspected years ago he still carried a torch for lady.
Our marriage hasn't the greatest but I tried to do the I could in this situation
How would you feel if you were in a relationship like mine?
