How would you feel if you gave your mom money, to help out with the bills...

...and your mom gave that money to your sister, to help the sister pay her rent, despite your sister having a [b]live-in[/b] boyfriend?

I gave my mom money yesterday to help out, she did not ask me for anything. Then today my sister asks my mom for 200. Thats [b]my[/b] money😤

What's the point of a live in boyfriend if he can't help you pay the dang bills???

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fun4us2b · M

All you can do, is not make the same mistake again be creating some boundaries for these people in your life who would take advantage of your good nature.

badapple

thats just wrong and deceptive. idk how she could spend someone elses money like that. especially she knew what you gave her money for.

Mamapolo2016 · F

I completely understand your frustration and anger, but if you gave your mom moneyvwith no stipulations for its use, it's her money now and she can use it as she sees fit. next time, payca bill instead,

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Mamapolo2016 · F

@QuixoticSoul You're right, but the deadbeat sister will just tell her to get lost and probably tell their mother and there'll be a family fight for what's already water under the bridge.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@QuixoticSoul Very true, next time I'll just pay a bill.

Mamapolo2016 · F

This is what 'me and ny squeeze aren't starving yet because Mom bails us out' means. Betcha a nickel if the money stops, the bf goes.

SW-User

Maybe your 200 went to bills and her freed up 200 went to your sister

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@SW-User Not a big deal since I live with my parents. I'm not interested in getting with people who can't help me in life.

SW-User

@iamnikki I like to help people. Not by giving them money.

SW-User

That's messed up

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@SW-User guess, it's my fault for wanting to help my mom. I should mention that I do still live with my parents. I contribute, buy all the household items, toiletries, food, cook, clean etc...

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