Laziness/depression or just dont care?

@Clairessa09 thanks for BA.

I don't know him like you and it's hard to be specific. Love can often blind us to what's actually going on, and I've known both men and women become tired of a relationship for lack of enthusiam, boredom and make up lots of BS. You need to know his intentions good or bad you can either ask him straight and be blunt and honest about it, or withdraw the cotton wool you have him wrapped up in enjoy some stuff yourself and see what he does. I'm guessing you want change and not to keep mothering him or do you have a fear he'll leave. He's an adult too, time he behaved like one, see if he'll fight for you and do something!

@SW-User I mother him too much. I nurture him like a baby,care for him and cook what he wants,been emotional support,gave up on a fulltime job to start a business where im at home. Im a realy great gf and now i feel he doesnt want me anymore. Even tho he says he does. I am dependent on him and maybe soemtimes im too overbearing

When we argue now he wont talk for days compared to bfore he will apologise and call. Now theres nothing at all. Worst part is i have made him my everyrhing. I have broken ties with alot of family members and have no friends

@Clairessa09 You just solved your own problem. You’ve lost yourself in Him. You’re co-dependent and a people pleaser, but don’t get down on yourself. Just correct it.

@LadyGrace thank u. What can i do to spice things up?give me some tips as i am clueless and drained

@Clairessa09 I should have been clearer. Sorry. I’m not thinking of spicing things up, the same way you are. I used the wrong word. I just meant start changing things, as mentioned in my other posts. The last thing you need to do is start stressing and knocking yourself out to please him. That’s what’s wrong right now, on top of the poor communication. You need to start putting yourself first and take care of you. It will take work, but it has to start with getting out of the co-dependency mode. An excellent way to do that is through Noah’s videos on YouTube or Andy Stanley’s videos. That’s the first thing to do. They have videos on self-esteem, confidence, you name it. Excellent choices!

@LadyGrace lol i honestly did not rven mean or think abt that. Just how to be better.

I will look into it. Thank u

@RemovedUsername786576 Thank u. This weekend i will

@JaggedLittlePill I DO communicate alot with him. He never communicates with me. He sucks at communicating.

I care alot abt him. But now i need to think abt myself doing nohing but working is making me miserable i told him so many times