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I Am Sad I Am Not Good Enough For You

He just left again. I feel tossed aside really when he just leaves our conversation after his own adieu and leave me to an empty chat without hearing me trying to say something or explain. I seem to keep doing the wrong thing in our relationship (LDR) and he seemed to be in a hurry to get rid of me.

I don't really know what to do. I try my best. I know I try too hard but in the wrong places. Maybe I'm just not worthy of a relationship. I am beginning to feel like I shouldn't have started any of this.
Oster1M
What I suggest is back off for a bit and see his reaction. As hard as it may be to pm him, don鈥檛. If it gets worse, remember, you can鈥檛 force it. Why would you want too? Many times our gut feelings are telling us, the answer we need.馃槉
Colourflame18-21, F
@Oster1 I tried just then but he said if we are both uncomfortable in speaking with each other openly we should just talk next time and left.
Oster1M
I understand. My advice, still applies. Remember, it may well be time to move on and find someone who truly enjoys your company. One day you may look back and ask yourself, what in the world you ever saw in him anyway. Trust me, I鈥檝e been there, done that!馃@Colourflame
Colourflame18-21, F
@Oster1 Thank you
DamnFeelz36-40, F
Long distance is rough
Colourflame18-21, F
@DamnFeelz Yes we are on our second year, going on third. But he's been having some trouble and i try my best to be supportive yet somehow we have been arguing a lot.
Immenselydist31-35, M
Maybe someone up there have not made u for someone like him who doesn't know what he is missing and someone right is there for you
Just follow the right signs he is giving you
I don't know much about life but just said what I felt.
AllAboutLaffs70-79, M
You said "Maybe I'm just not worthy of a relationship." .... seems to me that maybe he's not worthy of a relationship with you.
Colourflame18-21, F
@AllAboutLaffs Im not sure about that.
AllAboutLaffs70-79, M
@Colourflame I hope you figure it out.
Colourflame18-21, F
@AllAboutLaffs Thank you
LondonCowboy51-55, M
You are worthy and you are not to blame for someone else鈥檚 behaviour 馃尮
Colourflame18-21, F
@LondonCowboy Thank you. After this post, we have had discussions and beneficial conflict and become very close. However, he is missing right now.
Wishingwellguy46-50, M
I鈥檓 not sure what to say
I never left you
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