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I Have Been A Victim Of Unfair Punishments At School

Right, I don't think this is the right heading for this, but I don't care. Me and numerous others are all in the same situation with this, and I'm going to start a revolution to (hopefully) change parents' attitudes a bit! So anyone who's a parent sit back at try to understand this for our point of view...

In quite a few cases if a child/teenager gets into trouble at school then we get punished at school. But those of us with stricter parents get punished again at home. So in effect we've been punished TWICE for the same thing. However, what is really unfair is the punishment at home is usually even harsher than if we'd done the same thing at home. So not only are we getting doubly punished, we're getting even more than that!

So, how can that be fair? Mess up at home, get punished once. Mess up the same away from home, get punished harsher. Mess up the same at school at get punished even harsher again, as well as suffering whatever the school want to dish out.

Now, don't get me wrong - I'm not saying I don't deserve any punishment, because that would just be completely stupid! BUT why does the level of punishment vary so much?
th3r0n · 41-45, M
Most likely because your parents feel that it brings shame on their house when you act badly in public, or something of that nature
amyyuk · F
You are so right about this, it's not fair at all. I would like to show your post to mum and dad but i don't think it will turn out so great lol but it's good that other parents can see your point
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liondog · 51-55, M
I can't say why your parents feel that the punishment needs to harsher when you misbehave at school or while away from home.

Here it would depend on what you were in trouble for. For example getting a detention wouldn't be punished any further unless you were getting detentions for the same thing all the time or you'd lied about having homework done then got a detention for not handing it in because you hadn't done it in the first place, but getting suspended from school would be no picnic as you'd be grounded for at least the duration of the suspension and possibly longer. A grounding here means no access to electronics unless it's for school work, early bedtime and plenty of extra chores to keep you busy. My kids are also very aware that whining about being grounded or pleading to be let off can lead to extra days being added. When they were younger it would have meant a smacked bottom, but now that they're all older it's an extension of the grounding instead. The same goes for further bad behaviour whilst grounded.
Katy03 · 18-21, F
@liondog We might need it... If you can donate plenty of cushions, that may be useful! 😳
liondog · 51-55, M
@Katy03 This should get you started.

Katy03 · 18-21, F
@liondog ty 😊
TammieBear · 22-25, F
Try using the Double Jeopardy defence:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Double_jeopardy

My dad wanted to ground me following a detention at school for being persistently late. I used the defence that I could not be tried twice for the same offence and it sort of worked . . although I had to do extra chores for the rest of the week 😔
MrSimons · 41-45, M
@TammieBear The double jeopardy law has been repealed in the UK, at least for serious offences.
Katy03 · 18-21, F
@MrSimons Not in my house it hasn't!
MrSimons · 41-45, M
@Katy03 It sounds like you never had it to begin with.
iAmCass · F
Yeah it's not fair because it's so much worse that way :(
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