it is not for every one,, TBH ddlg is NOT for the inexperienced male. most men are NOT emotionally evovled enough for this. and it will NOT work with too young a guy, he just doenst have what that needs that he left you due to depression, proves his unfitness.
are you sure this is the kind of relationship you want?
@Natalia6 So is he in his early 20s and you're in your late mid/late teens? While that's not a huge age gap, there can be a big difference in what's going on.
Either way, I just want you to be careful. Those ages can be tough with a lot of things moving and going on.