I Have Herpes

my bf and i recently got herpes on the same day. How? no idea. we woke up and i felt extreme pain down there, and he had lil bumps on his peepee that stung. i wasnt able to poop for 3 days before and my butt started to hurt to the point where it hurt to walk, so i went to urgent care last weekend and they diagnosed me w herpes almost instantly, put me on antibiotics, and i went home and told my bf.
this last week i've been in so much pain, i couldn't even walk without his support bc the outbreak was by my butt and it felt like broken glass. literally had to have campus security come and pick me up in a golf cart to take me to class bc it was too far to walk bc i had to move at 2 mph walking. i couldn't sleep without waking up and crying bc the smallest movement hurt. but 6 days later after being on meds, im able to walk alot better with little to no support, i was able to go back to work yesterday, and can stand up and sit down with little to no pain. this week has been hell, but i'm surviving.