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True connection does not occur through sound bites, 140-character rants, video clips only seconds long, or reposting/forwarding of terabytes of content which one did not, oneself, create.
It takes a real give-and-take of talking about something of interest to at least the one queried, and develops into a real, "organic"--I loathe the overuse of this word in such a context...lol--and natural evolution of the ideas as typically happens in a REAL, honest-to-God [b]conversation[/b]...
If you have some of those, you begin to see some of the broad contours of another person's mind, spirit, emotions; their motivations, passions, drives; the things which push their buttons both in a good way & in a bad way.
The delving into each other is part of what conversation is, and where you are willing to take it defines the depth & importance of your friendship, relationship...connection.
It takes a real give-and-take of talking about something of interest to at least the one queried, and develops into a real, "organic"--I loathe the overuse of this word in such a context...lol--and natural evolution of the ideas as typically happens in a REAL, honest-to-God [b]conversation[/b]...
If you have some of those, you begin to see some of the broad contours of another person's mind, spirit, emotions; their motivations, passions, drives; the things which push their buttons both in a good way & in a bad way.
The delving into each other is part of what conversation is, and where you are willing to take it defines the depth & importance of your friendship, relationship...connection.
SomeMichGuy · M
@Lilymoon Why...*blush*...thank you for BC. 😊 (The SW abbreviation, not the Western Province of your Confederation.)
Lilymoon · F
@SomeMichGuy 😁 I figured that... and Yw
Viper · M
Well this one time at band camp...
AlienZipper · 61-69, M
Hmmmmmm
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Dan193 · 31-35, M
How do u start one?
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
There is nothing sexier than feeling comfortable.
Lilymoon · F
@Keepitsimple I love that.. so true. 💙
Viper · M
@Keepitsimple if it's alright, I might steal that phrase? Lol
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
Yes I know how to do that. It's kind of romantic but unfortunately nobody loves me.
pentacorn · F
word!
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
YES I love this
Lilymoon · F
@JoePourMan Morning Joe ☕
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
@Lilymoon Good Morning Lilly
Happy Sunday
Happy Sunday
Lilymoon · F
@JoePourMan You too Joe 💙
saragoodtimes · F
nothing like good intercourse
Lilymoon · F
@saragoodtimes 😁 it's da best
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
What's that
Lilymoon · F
@assemblingaknob I rest my case Lol
So hawt
SomeMichGuy · M
😊
Azlotto · M
Indeed...I've seen people in the same room texting each other.