I Believe a Good Sense of Humor Is Important

I don't know where else to put this, so I'll put this here. I have a friend, who I consider to be close, who makes insensitive comments that I don't know if she intends for them to be jokes or if she's being serious. She's basically accusing me of doing something I wouldn't do and that would be out of character for me or being something I'm not. I don't know if she's serious, but it hurts. One of the biggest ways to hurt me is to misunderstand me. Assume that I am a certain way (that I wouldn't consider good, btw) when really, I'm not. I think that's part of who she is, though. But it's making me question if I truly have a close girl friend. I'm a Christian and it's hard for me to find a friend who has the same morals as me, just simple things like not being so negative and gossip-y. Or just someone who values my friendship. I want someone who I feel I get close and personal with. And I don't feel like I can with her at all. Does anyone else feel this way?