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Have you ever told your significant other/spouse about your SW life, and if so, how did it go over?

SW-User
It's not a secret .. he's fine with it ... it's what happens when there's trust between two people ... I'm not on here for any other reason then for cheap entertainment....
SW-User
@GlamGirl: you ask this like it's a bad thing hahaha ... it's not a big deal , depending upon your real intentions on being on here .. just be honest with him ...if you feel that you're on here for a reason you should not be then you know the answer to this
GlamGirl · F
@Chernobylplayground: Well, in my case, it's a little complicated. I don't think he'll understand or see it as a positive, even if he is the indirect reason I am here, it makes me happy, and I am getting my needs met.
SW-User
@GlamGirl: it's your choice 🤷🏻‍♀️
LadyWioness · 56-60, F
He laughed at my response to a troll I fought with
told him about EP, and glancingly mentioned this, but he hardly listens when i talk about random shit sometimes, but i'll end up saying it again one day and he'll go " you never told me about that!" and i'll have to recite the date and all that shit when i first said it and what he was doing etc.
SW-User
No, but I sort of wish I had, I don't really like the secrecy.
GlamGirl · F
I can't go there yet. @Onecharmingman:
SW-User
@GlamGirl: I think it's some way off, but at some point...
GlamGirl · F
@Onecharmingman: I completely understand.
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
Hell no!!!! She was the reason I went to EP to vent and there are some incriminating stories lol
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@GlamGirl: thank you very much. 👍🏻

I have different issues altogether. 😕
GlamGirl · F
@Ambroseguy80: Here if you ever need to talk.
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@GlamGirl: I appreciate that!!!! I added you... 😉
shaelan · 41-45, M
She had a good laugh about some of the antics I related to her, and on occasion when we're together I've shown her some of the more humerous posts seen at that time. I've got nothing to hide and it's nice.
shaelan · 41-45, M
@GlamGirl: I am here to offer psychological and emotional support, among other things. But having said that, it's not why I came here - which was because I live in quite a solitary condition under most circumstances and something about the interaction here reduces that feeling of detachment towards the rest of the world.
GlamGirl · F
@shaelan: I am glad you have a place like this to come to then. I hope it helps.
shaelan · 41-45, M
@GlamGirl: I'll only say that I wish it helped more. It is certainly better than nothing.
I met him here and we talk about everything. We have no secrets.
GlamGirl · F
@SBelle: That's so great! Good for you!
JuppTupp · C
We share the account - he started it to show me off and then I took it basically over
Ghauzy · 51-55, M
My wife knows about what I do here and what I see in the general sense but not the day to day specifics. She doesn't like it in here so she decided to keep her distance. As fas as she is concerned, this is just a place for weirdos and rather stay away.
GlamGirl · F
@Ghauzy: That is what I fear my husband will think too. Trying to figure out the best way to describe this forum, and my place here to him.
AbbeyRhode · F
He knows. 😊
TBone · M
I keep my SW activity to myself. She knows I have chatted off and on for years though.
TBone · M
That makes sense to me. Are there are any other areas you chat or post in, that you could get his feelings about?
GlamGirl · F
@TBone: Yes, I have all different type groups, though I don't regularly chat in any one in particular.
TBone · M
Maybe get his feelings on one of the more 'innocent' of those other areas then. At least he'll know that your participating. :)
SW-User
yeah she knows , I hate deceiving . She's good with it cause I do nothin I shouldn't be. If your esposa finds out later it might cause lot's more trouble ?
GlamGirl · F
@Donovan: I hate deceiving too. That's why I am trying to figure out the best way to reveal it, without losing my ability to be here.
melbeacher · 56-60, M
No I have not. I do not think she would understand.
GlamGirl · F
@melbeacher: Extremely...I wish I had a crystal ball.
melbeacher · 56-60, M
@GlamGirl: Some things are better kept a secret. But I totally understand the mental and physical toll it is taking on you....and wish you strength and courage.......and now...a limerick !!!!
GlamGirl · F
@melbeacher: I GOT this. And bring on the limericks!
No spouse nor SO so I wouldn't know what to expect.
@GlamGirl: I'm even planning to keep it that way in life.

You're welcome.
GlamGirl · F
@LostSoul22: Do whatever makes you happy.💞
@GlamGirl: I think it's just a matter of convenience.
SW-User
What ,you want me to wake up with some cold sharp instrument against my throat? Or even somewhere worse😨 Haha
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
No Glam I wouldnt tell her. Like you I come here for my needs...others needs and fun.
76starships · 46-50, M
Oh, I will never tell. This place is mine alone.
GlamGirl · F
@76starships: I hope it will still be mine. Just thinking of telling him about it. Not inviting him here.
76starships · 46-50, M
@GlamGirl: If you tell him, he'll want to check you out. Keep it your place.
hawkfan12 · 46-50, M
No. I have chosen not to. Although I really don't have anything to hide.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
No this is strickly for me and my escape from rl
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
Yes . I told my girlfriend . She doesn't care .
SW-User
Yeah, I read out some of the more lulzy stuff to him
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