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Why would a guy block me for sending him pics he asked for just because they were random pics from the Internet and not pics of me?

I don't see how anybody could be so ungrateful. He wanted pics of women in jeans, so I sent him these:
Just because he's found out they weren't pics of me (which I never even claimed they were) he's now blocked me. Have you ever encountered such an ungrateful troll on here?
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WandererTony · 56-60, M
The pics are fine if he really wanted to see a girl in jeans. I think he wanted to see you with the jeans - for starters :)
So you outsmarted him and that stung. Good riddance I would say.
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@WandererTony Why didn't he thank me for outsmarting him? It's not that I even did anything bad to him, is it?
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@HairbrushDiva why should anyone thank you for crushing his sandcastle 😃
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@WandererTony Because I didn't think I crushed it, I thought I was helping him to decorate it. What did I do wrong?
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@HairbrushDiva LOL 😆. Have to be a guy to know how that felt 😂
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@WandererTony I don't think my husband would have found it that offensive. He likes me to get the upper hand.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@HairbrushDiva now thats a different ball game altogether 😄
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@WandererTony So what's wrong with that guy?
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@HairbrushDiva I feel he was interested in seeing more of you. Starting with Jeans 👖 and then perhaps without them.
Your sending internet pictures, which he already has access to, means that all his effort for the last 4 weeks are wasted. So he just closed down the project forever.
You are confused because you perceived him differently. You compare him to your husband. But he is different. You need to understand that.
Just move on, dear. 😇
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@WandererTony I wasn't really comparing that guy with my husband. I was judging him by the way he was when we FIRST interacted. He seemed OK then. I wasn't expecting him to be a Jekyll-and-Hyde monster, was I? Why didn't he warn me he was like that when I first messaged him? Where I come from people like that are simply not accepted.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@HairbrushDiva I appreciate your feelings. He is not what you expected him to be. And your expectation is based on “where you come from” and your first impressions.
This is the bigger world we access through the internet. It’s no longer where you come from. There are pleasant surprises as well as rude shocks. Cultural differences perhaps. Behavioural differences. It’s a learning experience.
In some places, extra marital flirting is cheating. And those who are cheating do it like no holds barred. They don’t follow any expectations.
Let’s see the bright side. You are wiser. You have made more friends by loosing one 👍😊
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@WandererTony The thing that baffles me is that Internet life seems vastly different from city life. Why should it be? I live in a multi-cultural city, so all cultural differences are equal here. Why else is Internet life so different from city life?

I have no desire to cheat on my husband or flirt with others. What's the point?

If I can loose a friend, is it possible to tight a friend?