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Do you ever feel like everyone’s always trying to dominate you?

Everything you say is challenged, every decision you make is questioned, people trying to convince you that you don’t want what you actually desire...ppl just trying to make a mess of you.
LadyJ · F
The only two people i ever listened to in my life were my parents,the rest is back ground noise
Indy74 · 46-50, F
@LadyJ words of wisdom to live by.☺
LadyJ · F
@Indy74Our parents are usually the ones with all the wisdom 🤗🤗..
Indy74 · 46-50, F
@LadyJ yes so true!!🤗
SW-User
Lately a shit ton of people. Peeps be trying to convince me that I like having sex because of my emotional problems. It starts to feel like people prefer me miserable.
purplepen · 51-55, F
@SW-User Only bad people prefer others to be miserable.
@SW-User I’m sorry- you know what you want and no means no. I support you from afar and although I don’t know you, I don’t prefer you miserable. I prefer you happy and feeling wanted so that you can keep hanging out with us on SW🙂
isnt that what bullying is? one person attempting to dominate another.
i hope that helps. im not sure of the relationship between you and them so im giving it my best shot.
@Spoiledbrat this does help. Thank you so much! I was silent just like you said and I guess that’s what I was feeling bad about. Did I look weaker having been silent, but you’re right become how can you control someone that’s not responding.
@purplepen worse- management! There’s always another leader that wants to prove they’re better than you in every way and that you’re doing it all wrong. I’m sitting back like, “please do my job for me so I can just sit back and get paid for it” lol.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
Yes! I have often felt that way.
The struggle is real.

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my husbands mom and bullied me but otherwise no. no ones ever treated me like that before.
@Spoiledbrat I hope she’s not close and if she is, that she doesn’t do it anymore. That’s exhausting.
thank you. i don't see her that often. if shes not bullying me shes bragging about something or challenging me. @DecafD
@Spoiledbrat ugh well hopefully other people see it so that’s it’s not just in your head and driving you crazy.
theAlchemist · 56-60, M
That's how my father was with me. And that's why he's disowned.
@theAlchemist gosh that can create a complex!
SW-User
No. I only encounter those type on occasion and very briefly.
purplepen · 51-55, F
Not everyone. Just dominators.
Magenta · F
Micro managers. Eff that.
@Magenta yes! They really are all micro managers that have serious control issues.
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@SW-User good for you!!!

 
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