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Have you ever looked at your parents at their worst and told yourself your never gonna be like them when you grow up ??

And then wind up worst then they did ?? Yeah same
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hunkalove · 61-69, M
My parents were horrible people. I remember being about 6 and thinking if that's what it's like to be a father I never want to be one. They were so unhappy I told myself I never wanted to get married. I have never been married or had kids.
@hunkalove I married, and the marriage has been moderately successful.
Neither of us had kids.
I'm reasonably sure that if we had we would have made a terrible mess of it.
Now, with global warming and all the other ills in the world, I feel certain that not having had kids was one of the best decisions of our lives.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
@hartfire I have never understood why anyone would want to bring a child into this horrible world. I doubt that a child born today will live to see 50.
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
You are still young... your life isn’t defined yet.
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@Spokeskitties75 thank you
Lolz...it's a long life...how could your parents not fight or argue if they were together for so many years? Some tiff's are actually even mushier than love itself.

Don't give up on your relationship...it takes a lot of hard work. But in the end it's worth it.
NickiHijab · F
My parents aren't bad people. Dad's a lil questionable but hey 1 out of 2 ain't bad lol.

Give life your own definition. Don't let them do it for you.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
You can turn shit around. It ain't easy and you've got stuff working against you but it's also entirely possible and has been done by many people.
MiserableAtBest · 18-21, F
I don’t want to have kids, but if I ever do I have made a promise to myself that I will never be like my parents
RubySoo · 56-60, F
No. My folks were good people. Im happy im like them in many ways.
Doomflower · 36-40, M
This is one of many reasons I am an antinatalist.
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@Doomflower I need to look that up
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
I've always tried to do better
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@vetguy1991 It's about trying because no one said it will be easy but we keep trying.
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My dad had no patience. I have no patience 😬
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Never! My parents were so good!
I am lucky!
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Knowing that is the best way to avoid it right. I said I will never be like my parents and I'm still doing good.
Don't give up.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Well... I never hit a women and I never was an alcoholic. 😔

As to being worse, well some to this day dispise witches.
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yep but in some ways I improved on their traits.
StarLily · 51-55, F
Yes. And I'm not like them... not even close.
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
Both my parents took very little interest in me as a kid, and I've not made that mistake. So I'd hope I've become a slightly better parent and person
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I've always been like my dad. An educated angry alcoholic 😂

 
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