I am finding the best way of dealing with stupid men who message me with personal questions without even introducing themselves is just to ignore them by deleting their messages.
thats what I do with stupid women too do you want to see me nude ,will you send me money will you marry me this site is a mess ,not just for women I am old ,but scamers do prey on the elderly and the disabled LOL
Afraid that spanking group of yours is similar to a dinner bell 🔔 for some of these people. Most formalities are not generally expected in these situations. Just ignore with most, it is how most who don't want those interactions handle it.